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Rock Lady 04-07-2011 08:30 AM

I scheduled a class one time at a local quilt shop. When I went to the class (which is 15+ miles away) I was told that not enough people had signed up and the class was cancelled. No one called to tell any of those who had scheduled that there would be no class. I have never signed up again and most likely will not sign up in the future. Waste of gas money if nothing else.

Baloonatic 04-07-2011 08:31 AM


Originally Posted by Summer Spice
$3.58 a gallon gas would make me want to vent to....

Ummm, $4.11 here... (CA)

kwhite 04-07-2011 08:33 AM

I bet she is the type of person to be the first to B*&CH if she is not given the attention she think she deserves too.

vschieve 04-07-2011 08:42 AM

It would make me want to vent with the gals here too; after loading up everything in the vehicle, gas, time waiting-the older I get the more valuable every minute is to me. How COULD she forget is what I would be asking. This is her business, for Lord's sake! I hope you have other alternatives as far as future classes go.

toriabelle 04-07-2011 08:47 AM


Originally Posted by RkayD
Customer service seems to becoming a thing of the past here lately. People have no honor and pride in what they do...and I'm running into it across the board. Its very discouraging at times.

They need to rethink their attitudes. The online quilt shops I have shopped with have been VERY helpful, and very willing to refund, make good if an item was missed, etc. The stores are closing even in Fla. where there's a quilt group on every corner to buy from them. I think the reason is just what you said.

bearisgray 04-07-2011 09:10 AM

Stuff happens.

It was a disappointing thing that your instructor goofed up.

You can always try to be "compensated" for your time by asking for another class or getting a refund.

However, if that's the worst thing that has happened to you recently, life is still good.

cabinfever 04-07-2011 10:55 AM


Originally Posted by RkayD
Customer service seems to becoming a thing of the past here lately. People have no honor and pride in what they do...and I'm running into it across the board. Its very discouraging at times.

I hope not on this "board" ;).

Lv2sew2011 04-07-2011 11:05 AM

Is wondering why didn't she write it down when she made the class....then she wouldn't had forgotten, maybe being late to her shop has happen more than one time, and maybe thats why her business is going down road...

Things that make you go hmmmmmm!

cabinfever 04-07-2011 11:05 AM


Originally Posted by lalaland
Ok, you gave it a second chance, which was very generous of you considering your first experience. I would have led a revolt half way through the first class.

Since she's trying to do these classes herself, and had no one watching her shop during the first class, she's probably trying to keep her head above water by fulfilling the roll of shop keeper and teacher at the same time, but taking your money and giving you partial time and hit and miss instruction is a crime!!

I'd ask for my money back. I'd tell her I had the time for when the class was originally scheduled and I was there, unfortunately I'm unable to make your rescheduled class time so please refund my money. If she refuses and you end up taking the rescheduled class and you get the same partial time and hit and miss instruction, I would be noisy about it during the class and I bet others would be as well.

I would personally ask for a refund of the missed class, based your first "interrupted teaching experience" with her. Unless of course you really need/want the class & there are no alternatives for you. Otherwise I would do as suggested above; & recommend to the teacher perhaps the class could be offered when the store is CLOSED & the phone is on "answer mode". Since she's paying the rent, it won't cost her more to have the class before/after store hours. Perhaps she could hang up a big sign in her window "next class: date & time" so SHE won't miss it! Just my 2 cents

cabinfever 04-07-2011 11:11 AM


Originally Posted by sunrise450
I so agree and so embarrasing. I even forget names. I will be introducing or even speaking to someone (family included) and when I get to the name, I draw a blank.

I too have this experience often lately, so don't even dream of going back to professional work...just quilting through the "haze". Thankfully I do charity quilts, so find I am still "useful", which gives me joy.

SuzanneG 04-07-2011 11:23 AM

I can't say I wouldn't be uspet, but I also would be understanding. I've done something similar myself and I'm a very reliable, responsible person. But being human, these things will happen once in a while. But when they do, they have to be made as right as we can make them. I hope she at least offered a way to compensate those of you who showed up in some way. That's not only kind and decent, it makes good business sense.

cabinfever 04-07-2011 11:28 AM


Originally Posted by BellaBoo
It's downright stupid how so many adults think saying Oh, my bad in place of an apology will make things right. Most don't feel ashamed about being thoughtless. It's just oh whatever, giggle giggle. DH said the phrase my bad was used to excuse such stupid mistakes at work, the last intern was fired on the spot by saying it and shrugging his shoulders, like so what, to the wrong man in charge. LOL.

Encore, encore...let the reality begin for these fools! I too am tired of people's irresponsibility. Recently, my daughters Scout leader left her downtown after the parade even after she & I texted about this very thing (6x in the half hour just prior) as well as confirming before the parade began (2 hours). OK, it's a small town, but still 20 registered sex offenders here! She showed up at the cookie sale, where I had to go ahead to set up & casually asked where my daughter was. I was so livid...I forgive most anything, but you don't leave my child when you are in charge of her. Daughter called from a restaurant near where the end of the parade was, on some strangers cell phone. I sent my son to get her. Let's just say I don't plan on "entrusting" my daughter to her care in future as a result. She said "Oh, my bad"...REALLY!

sandy l 04-07-2011 12:02 PM


Originally Posted by cabinfever

Originally Posted by BellaBoo
It's downright stupid how so many adults think saying Oh, my bad in place of an apology will make things right. Most don't feel ashamed about being thoughtless. It's just oh whatever, giggle giggle. DH said the phrase my bad was used to excuse such stupid mistakes at work, the last intern was fired on the spot by saying it and shrugging his shoulders, like so what, to the wrong man in charge. LOL.

Encore, encore...let the reality begin for these fools! I too am tired of people's irresponsibility. Recently, my daughters Scout leader left her downtown after the parade even after she & I texted about this very thing (6x in the half hour just prior) as well as confirming before the parade began (2 hours). OK, it's a small town, but still 20 registered sex offenders here! She showed up at the cookie sale, where I had to go ahead to set up & casually asked where my daughter was. I was so livid...I forgive most anything, but you don't leave my child when you are in charge of her. Daughter called from a restaurant near where the end of the parade was, on some strangers cell phone. I sent my son to get her. Let's just say I don't plan on "entrusting" my daughter to her care in future as a result. She said "Oh, my bad"...REALLY!

No way should that Scout "leader" not be reported to the organization! "oh, my bad" my ***

kashu 04-07-2011 12:09 PM


Originally Posted by linda701
The instructor scheduled the class and time so I just went when she scheduled it for . When I went the first time, she was late,never had anyone to cover the shop but her and the phone kept ringing, customer coming in so I never got much instruction . Then she could not understand why we never got anything done. Imagine that so I dont know if I want to go back. She never refunded me any money.

I don't know is that is the only place around that has classes , but if it is not, I would ask for my full refund and possibly a discount or fat quarters to make up for your gas, time, babysitter, rushing to get there ON TIME, etc. If she doesn't see fit to compensate for her accident, I would tell her point blank that you do not plan on scheduling any more classes with her. Your time is valuable and you work for your money. I would also tell her that you will mention your experience with her and the classes you've attempted to take with her to your sewing/quilting friends. After all you don't want others to go through what you did.

tntgranny 04-07-2011 12:42 PM

I dont understand how you could "forget" a class.

My time 04-07-2011 02:33 PM

This would be upset me as well. Hopefully she will offer some form of restitution.

pocoellie 04-07-2011 02:42 PM

Did you already pay for the class? If so, get your money back. There's no reason for being that insensitive to other people. You have a right to vent. I would make sure that I never signed up for another class with her, and I would let her know why. If you want to take a class, I would look around for another quilt shop. If there's not another one close by, there are tons of tutorials on the 'net and there's plenty of quilters who have never had a lesson and still do fabulous work.

Gas here is $4.15 as of yesterday.

trolleystation 04-07-2011 02:57 PM

Every one should get a free class......no excuse for that.

Kappy 04-07-2011 03:23 PM

Oh that is so un-professional! You have every right to vent.

BizyStitches 04-07-2011 03:42 PM


Originally Posted by Summer Spice
$3.58 a gallon gas would make me want to vent to....

I wish our gas was $3.58 we are at $3.79 and I'm guessing it is even higher other places. OUCH

nativetexan 04-07-2011 03:45 PM

he, he. yep, i had a class for oil painting that the instructor didn't show up for. he'd had an argument with the Center when the classes were held, so he just didn't show up. all the students did!!!

Grandma Peg 04-07-2011 05:57 PM

That's too bad hope it works out.

dixiebelle162002 04-07-2011 05:58 PM

I can understand why especially with the way gas prices are these days!

newbiequilter 04-07-2011 06:55 PM


Originally Posted by linda701
The instructor scheduled the class and time so I just went when she scheduled it for . When I went the first time, she was late,never had anyone to cover the shop but her and the phone kept ringing, customer coming in so I never got much instruction . Then she could not understand why we never got anything done. Imagine that so I dont know if I want to go back. She never refunded me any money.

I have not read thru all the postings, but is the instructor the owner of the shop or an employee? Complaints need to be made - your time and money are important too! When a class is scheduled, the instructor "belongs" to the students who have paid for her/his time. To give any less is an injustice to the students. Yes, I have been in a class where the instructor was an employee of the LQS and customers actually came in during the class and wanted her to help them! Wrong. I would request my class fee be refunded and look for classes elsewhere.

sewingsuz 04-07-2011 07:00 PM

I think I would ask for a refund. You won't be comfortable at the class.

katigirl 04-07-2011 11:32 PM


Originally Posted by Summer Spice
$3.58 a gallon gas would make me want to vent to....

You are lucky in nys we are up to 3.77 a gallon.

sewhappy57 04-07-2011 11:36 PM

That's awful, I hope she makes it up to you!

QuiltingrandmafromMi 04-08-2011 05:41 AM

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She should throw and extra day in, because it was her own fault!

sewbizgirl 04-08-2011 05:50 AM

Rather than going for when she rescheduled, I would just ask for my money back, and some compensation for the gas and time you lost. I'd find someplace else to take classes.

Jammin' Jane 04-08-2011 08:26 AM

That happened to me too. Two friends and I signed up for a class and the instructor was a No-Show. We were bummed but we went out for dinner and then to JoAnn's! The instuctor called to see if we wanted to reschedule with her...NOPE! We went elsewhere!

Katts 14 04-08-2011 10:14 AM

I agree! all the things you have to get together for a class plus gas i would call ahead next time.

auntiehenno 04-08-2011 01:24 PM

I don't blame you!!!! This happened to a quilter friend in SD. She was the instructor and didn't tell students about the class!!

vschieve 04-08-2011 01:34 PM


Originally Posted by auntiehenno
I don't blame you!!!! This happened to a quilter friend in SD. She was the instructor and didn't tell students about the class!!

Wow-did she have any remorse?

Marvel 04-08-2011 03:39 PM

SEEMS LIKE SHE COULD USE A BIT OF HELP WITH PLANNING. bETTER LUCK NEXT TIME. dO nOT LET THAT HOLD YOU BACK.

quiltmom04 04-08-2011 04:30 PM


Originally Posted by linda701
Went to quilt class, instructor never showed up. Went home and called her when her shop opened. She never wrote it on her calendar. Rescheduled the class . Everytime I think of it, I get mad. thanks for letting me vent!!

I imagine that WAS irritating - getting ready and looking forward to a class! But you're very lucky if you never screwed up and inconvenienced anyone. Let it go.

TonnieLoree 04-08-2011 05:15 PM


Originally Posted by ThreadHead
Gas Prices------Supply and Demand-----Solution---use only what you need. Ride your bike, or walk when you can.

Get your ducks in a row, plan your driving schedule, make ONE round trip..Get'r done!

Only thing is, everyone has to do it, and most people won't.

One of my friends told me that he didn't care what the cost of gas was as long as he could get it. Look what that type of thinking has done to us.
I told him that I cared. Told him he was full of gas.
We have plenty of oil, don't let them fool you. It's all about money. They have it, we don't.
Syl

What the heck are you talking about? :lol:

madamekelly 04-08-2011 08:12 PM


Originally Posted by cabinfever

Originally Posted by BellaBoo
It's downright stupid how so many adults think saying Oh, my bad in place of an apology will make things right. Most don't feel ashamed about being thoughtless. It's just oh whatever, giggle giggle. DH said the phrase my bad was used to excuse such stupid mistakes at work, the last intern was fired on the spot by saying it and shrugging his shoulders, like so what, to the wrong man in charge. LOL.

Encore, encore...let the reality begin for these fools! I too am tired of people's irresponsibility. Recently, my daughters Scout leader left her downtown after the parade even after she & I texted about this very thing (6x in the half hour just prior) as well as confirming before the parade began (2 hours). OK, it's a small town, but still 20 registered sex offenders here! She showed up at the cookie sale, where I had to go ahead to set up & casually asked where my daughter was. I was so livid...I forgive most anything, but you don't leave my child when you are in charge of her. Daughter called from a restaurant near where the end of the parade was, on some strangers cell phone. I sent my son to get her. Let's just say I don't plan on "entrusting" my daughter to her care in future as a result. She said "Oh, my bad"...REALLY!

That's her explanation????!!!!!! Obviously this 'leader' has not seen "the mother bear" type lose it on her. The next time she said that statement (Oh,my bad), God should smite her mightily! IMHO

justflyingin 04-08-2011 09:06 PM


Originally Posted by linda701
Went to quilt class, instructor never showed up. Went home and called her when her shop opened. She never wrote it on her calendar. Rescheduled the class . Everytime I think of it, I get mad. thanks for letting me vent!!

I teach English and one day close to Christmas when everyone else had cancelled their lessons I went Christmas shopping (I think it was early on the 22nd of Dec.) We had gotten up early to go about an hour away...

I got a call from my student who was waiting at my gate. I was so embarrassed because I had forgotten to cancel her lesson--as all my other lessons had been cancelled.

I apologized profusely and gave her the next lesson free. I still feel badly about it when I think about it.


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