It sounds like you have great friends. Let them help you, just like you'd help them. It makes the friendship bond even closer. Try it, you'll enjoy it.

Bobbie,
Sorry about your toe, and hope it feels better soon.
Like most of the others I think you should go to the show. Your friends sound caring and devoted, and I know you would do the same for them if the situations were reversed. You go and have a wonderful time and tell us all about it.