I would give her the qult -- perhaps for her daughter, but then, without making too big a deal out of it, mentin from time to time, how your quilting is going. She may have no idea how much is involved in making a quilt. When she says, "What's new?", you might talk about how you just got a great , idea/deal/new pattern/stash buster, etc.
She might be facinated or she might not be, but you will have given her an idea of what you put into a qult and perhaps build an appreciation for the art form.

There aren't many people who don't quilt that realize the expense involved in making one. With that said...if your heart is telling you to give her one of your quilts then do it. You'll probably be surprised how happy it makes you and her. :)

Why don't you make her a small gift like a quilted pouch for her scissors?

I would think something smaller would be more appropriate...however, your choice. I sent my hair dresser a card and
will add a generous tip when she does my hair next week. Maybe later on, you could do a
small quilt for her.

I have been going to my hairdresser for two years. I just had my hair cut and highlighted two days ago. I tipped him the cost of a haircut ($60). I would not give her a quilt if I were you. It is a lovely idea, but let your relationship grow over the next year before you do something like that. If I had only been to this hairdresser twice, I just would have given him a "regular" tip and been done with it.

When I got married to DH, a good friend looked at my diamond ring and said she had never been given a diamond ring before. Well, I have several, but I never thought she meant for me give her one.

You said you have more quilts than you know what to do with. Here is something to do with one! I bet she will love it, and you will feel so wonderful yourself!

I totally agree with what Sierra said: "A gift is a gift." Do what is in your heart, not expecting reciprocation. I think her comment about not having a quilt was only to say that not everyone has a quilt -- for instance, she doesn't have one. I don't think she was asking for the quilt. But regardless, give the quilt if you WANT her to have it, not if she's "worth" it or if she can return the favor. And no, you won't have to "top" that one next year. I also agreee with the person who said that a "fat tip" would probably be appreciated next year. Merry Christmas.

I personally think hold off for a year and see what your heart tells you then. If you're torn then I say wait. Especially if you've only
been to her twice.

IF you are fond of her and really like her .. why should it matter how much it costs- its a gift from the heart that counts .. IF you have many- maybe mother and daughter would just be thrilled with the gifts of a quilt made with love.

I wouldn't. This is a hairdresser you've met twice. Would you give her a $100 piece of jewelry? Maybe if she'd been your fabulous hair dresser for 10 years, but not 2 times. Save your quilts for someone whom you either know well or choose to gift to someone who NEEDS it. For instance, I'm gifting a quilt to a coworker of my mother's - I don't personally know her, but her life is so stressful right now, any warm fuzzy will be of help.

As other posters have mentioned, most people who don't quilt have no idea what the actual cost of making a quilt is - not even counting the time allotment.

I say do what your heart tells you to do. If you want to give her the quilt, do so. If you had rather not, then give her either a bigger tip or some another appropriate gift. I would not give a quilt/gift to the daughter and exclude the mother as the daughter is not the one doing your hair and it appears that you do not even know her.

Bless me and my quilts. Once I pay for the fabric, the cost of the quilt never crosses my mind again. I make them for the pure pleasure. They go to family, friends, random strangers, and charity. Course I'm a regular houndog for a bargain, giveaways, and thrift stores. The only time I quote a price is those 'Its so beautiful, my friend wants one like it.'

You know, the trouble with adults is that we over think every thing too much. Children give with all their hearts on pure instinct and are happy and joyful to have made another person happy and joyful. And then they run off to play and never give it another thought. If the adults of this world could be that free and giving there would be no unhappiness anywhere. When we become stingy, selfish or self-centered we not only keep the joy from others but we also keep ourselves locked in to always thinking and feeling only of ourselves and I don't believe it makes us happier. It's Christmas. Give, give, give until it hurts. And then run off and play.

I was a nail technician in Michigan for 17yrs. Some of my most cherished gifts were from the crafters. I also recv'd a beautiful (expensive) crystal bowl from a client that new it would be our last year together. I think giving her a quilt will help her realize traditions and sharing of something we put so much of ourselves in when making. Remember she might not understand the value of the gift sentimentally, so encourage her to pass this on to her children with a story of where this treasure came from. I really hope you decide to share your talents, she shares her's with you. Have a great holiday.

How much it costs doesn't matter. What a wonderful gift and you are wonderful to consider it!

I'm with Sierra: Give her what feels good to you! I don't think it's a commitment for next year or anything more than a nice thing to do. But, don't be surprised if it ends up being a dogbed or whatever. Not everyone will place the same value on it you do - especially when they are not a quilter them self!

I went to the same hairdresser for 10 years, and never gave her a quilt until this fall when I found out she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She hugged me and thanked me, and it just felt right. In your situation, I think I would feel a little awkward. However, this is your decision, of course. :)

Personally I wouldn't give her a quilt. To me quilts are given to someone special in our life. Maybe in a few years when you've developed a special relationship with her you might want to consider it. If she works for a chain she might be moved or gone before you even finish it. That's a lot of expense and time for someone you hardly know and see very seldom.

Two hair do's and two facials?? My personal opinion is it's a little early to give a wonderful gift like that. If you stay with her for a while and she continues to give you good service then go for it. Meanwhile through discussions with her when you are there, you can casually drop certain facts about long arm quilting, fabric, the amount of time that goes into your hobby, etc. If she does get a lap quilt she will be much more appreciative knowing what goes into it.

That's hard. But give from your heart. Just don't talk about having so many quilts, and don't know
what to do with them.People don't know how much work goes in to making a quilt. If you do give give to the daughter.

I always give a much larger tip at Christmas. The quilt sounds wonderful, but a larger tip might be what she could really use. If we all tipped larger at this time of year it makes for a really nice bonus.

I have given away many quilts to many people, and nine times out of ten they have no idea of the work nor the $$$ involved in the quilt. I give it because I feel like they will appreciate it, know it is like a part of me, and that I am giving it to them because I care about them. Again, this is not always the case, appreicating it, I mean. But that is another thread. I would not worry about what it costs, if you are moved to give, then give. Isn't that what the season is all about anyway??? It might just be the best gift her child receives this year, who knows? It is the giver...meaning YOU, who really receives when giving a gift of oneself. Once the "gift" leaves your hands, it is no longer yours and what happens to it is no longer your concern...it is no longer yours....do I make an sense?

Don't most quilters consider those who appreciate, those in need (even if we don't know them), those who long for a touch of love (even if they aren't really aware of their longing) someone who deserves a quilt? Don't most quilters make quilts for different causes.... nursing homes, children in hospitals, victims of natural disasters?

Don't just leave it you will miss the BIG SMILE & all the Love in her eyes. Especially if it's her 1st handmade quilt . Don't miss out on it. I will bet it will be Thank You ! you will cherish . Let us know.

What would make YOU feel good?

Quilts for Hairdresser
 

I think giving a quilt to someone who performs a personal service for us, such as a hairdresser, is a great idea. I give my hairdresser a quilt for Christmas every year, and she always says it is her best gift.

If it makes you feel good, go ahead. I'm sure she will treasure it for many years to come.

Jeanne, I think when you said "I don't know what I am going to do with all of them" you left the door wide open. Maybe She thought you were giving out an invitation for a Quilt.
When giving a gift it is supposed to be given from the heart. I think you should give it to Her and feel good about. Who knows it might change things for Her. We never know what differences we may make in other peoples lives. If someone gives me something they have made I always know it is special. Give it in love.

Joy

Having been a hairdresser for years beleive me, we dont expect anything, but are always pleased to receice something. I have been extreamly lucky in my years of "service". I got $1000.00 a year from one of my customers for several years, and i was also given by someone with a bag of pretzel bits one year....so my thought is give because you want to, will someone feel good with the gift?
is that not the idea? does the cost really matter?

Typically ettiquette calls for tipping to be equal to the service you are receiving, so if a hair cut it $20 the tip should equal that. I personally feel a quilt is not appropriate and this is a new hairdresser not someone you have been going to for years.

I would hold off on giving her the quilt and see where conversations take you in the future. Sounds like your hairdresser is really good at communicating with her customer (you) and it may simply be that...and, she may really be interested in quilting too. You don't know yet. You just know that she is a very friendly person! If she seems genuinely interested in quilting you could bring some of your WIP and share with her what it takes. Her reaction to actually seeing a quilt would tell you. (BTW - you sound like a very friendly person too!)

I've been going to the same hairdresser since she got out of school (about 20 years). She and my DS were friends in school. If I go to her in Dec I take her a gift. But I also give her things all year. She has 4 children. We are in a co-op and can't eat all the stuff we get so I pass it on to her. I'm sure she'd rather get things for her children than for her self.
Do what your heart tells you and you can't go wrong.

Maybe what you can do is give her the quilt for Christmas and maybe or tell her that the quilt would also be included as a tip for the entire year. That way you do not have to tip her each time you go get your hair done or a massage. Good luck

give her the quilt and who knows she might order one for her daughter, it will be very good advertising for you.
Bless you.

Just had another idea...How about telling her for Christmas you will help her make her own quilt. You could be her instructor and that way she may make a lot of quilts

I have made the raggy quilts in those situtions (for daughter) & they are quick & not too wxpwnsive. I use cute flannel & some times 7 fabrics. I Cut 7" sqs & clip 7x9 is nice size or even 7x8 depending on size of child.. Wouln't have to put in batting.. the children seem to enjoy them.

I totally agree with you. Giving quilts to charity is what we do. This girl is someone who I plan on being a hair dresser to me for years to come. I live in a small town and stick to one hair dresser for years. I know she will appreciate a quilt. I have some ready to go and no one to give them to. I am going to give her my "Hearts over Texas" quilt. I made it with "Wild Rose" fabric. I think it's lovely. I know her taste since she decorated her shop. I think she will love it. She goes out of her way to make my hair look great. New styles, new colors...she does her art on me, I think I'll give her some of my art to her.