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tuesy 05-30-2010 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by hpylady
Tuesy: How about some pictures of your dishclothes? :)


Here's the 3 latest. The one in the middle has been bleached.. (got washed today and I use bleach) The first one is the color that the blue marbled looks before bleach and the last one is one that I did last night albiet on bigger needles since I had used my other needles to show my friend how to knit and had a start on it for her.. :lol:

Dishcloths
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Elly 05-30-2010 11:19 PM

Tuesy... Those are Great!

I can't knit! nadda.. nope..Both hands won't work together! LOL!!

Elly 05-30-2010 11:36 PM

I go to the Fabric Store or Quilt Shop! Then, I spend $ !!

It puts me "in the Mood"..To sew or Quilt!

auntmarie 05-31-2010 01:31 AM

I need help too!!!!!!!!

auntmarie 05-31-2010 01:32 AM

I need help too!!!!!!!!

hpylady 05-31-2010 04:07 AM

Thanks Tuesay! That is the same pattern that my Aunt taught me, only thing is I don't know if I remember the pattern anymore, I am sure I don't because it's been a couple of years now. I stopped knitting to start quilting and have been quilting ever since.

You did a good job on those, very consistent. I will have to get the pattern from my Aunt again sometime. Thank You Tuesay.

Miss Mona 05-31-2010 06:38 AM

It gets expensive if you have to send the quilts out to be quilted (not counting the waiting list). I don't want, or really have the money to spend to have my quilts quilted and my machine has a hard time with the big quilts, so I quilt as I go and put the blocks together afterwards. This way I can use my fancy stitches and if I don't like the stitch after I get started can change for the next block.

tuesy 05-31-2010 07:21 AM


Originally Posted by Elly
Tuesy... Those are Great!

I can't knit! nadda.. nope..Both hands won't work together! LOL!!


*LOL*. Elly.. I know exactly what you mean. When I first learned how to knit, I would drop stitches like there was no tomorrow...

tuesy 05-31-2010 07:23 AM


Originally Posted by hpylady
Thanks Tuesay! That is the same pattern that my Aunt taught me, only thing is I don't know if I remember the pattern anymore, I am sure I don't because it's been a couple of years now. I stopped knitting to start quilting and have been quilting ever since.

You did a good job on those, very consistent. I will have to get the pattern from my Aunt again sometime. Thank You Tuesay.

You're welcome. :-) Here's the pattern for ya.. Someone was kind enough to put it on the net. This is the one I learned from my Grandma.. and funny enough it's called Grandmother's Favorite Dishcloth.
http://www.groupepp.com/dishbout/kpa...rfavorite.html

hpylady 05-31-2010 09:13 AM

:thumbup: Thank You so much!

franie 05-31-2010 09:22 AM

It happens but not to me--not that I can remember. I have the opposite problem--I get cranky because I can't seem to have the time to sew. Summer is bad for that. I get inspired being around other quilters--and that happens (inspiration) more than I can keep up with. Hope it all comes back soon for you. Congrats on the new sewing machine! Just jump in and sew on it! I doubt it will break before you have classes. Let us know what works for you.

jan22 05-31-2010 03:28 PM

Now and then I get into a slump. I'll take a break and read some quilting novels, then I'll go through my stash, feel the fabric, think of what I could do with it. Next I go through my many patterns and pics of ideas I've downloaded on my computer. Generally after all that I'm ready to jump into a project. Sometimes at my guild meeting I'll see something from show n'tell that I really like and it will motivate me to start a new project. Notice I said start, did I mention finish??

countrymaid 06-01-2010 09:28 AM

Find a mystery quilt with all the directions posted. It helped me by having all the directions written out in steps. I didn't have to think ahead just follow until it was done. Sometimes I get overwhelmed by the end result picture, but when broken down, you work step by step.

franie 06-01-2010 05:47 PM


Originally Posted by jan22
Now and then I get into a slump. I'll take a break and read some quilting novels, then I'll go through my stash, feel the fabric, think of what I could do with it. Next I go through my many patterns and pics of ideas I've downloaded on my computer. Generally after all that I'm ready to jump into a project. Sometimes at my guild meeting I'll see something from show n'tell that I really like and it will motivate me to start a new project. Notice I said start, did I mention finish??

YA on the finishing a new project. We should do a count on how many UFOs we have.

grammypatty7 06-01-2010 08:29 PM


Originally Posted by sabrinaquilts
What do you do when you can't seem to get back into the mood of quilting? I know for some that maybe a blasphemy, but let us just pretend seriously for a second. I don't mean burned out of doing quilting. Maybe unmotivated might be a better description. Quilting used to be an escape. I used to sew at least 3-8 hours everyday faithfully. Now I have a new sewing machine but even that is not working to boost my enthusiasim because I have to take classes to learn to really use it.

What do you do when you suddenly drop the desire to quilt and know you really need to get back into it?

That will happen periodically but I love to read and will read. It's also a good time to do some good house cleaning and after a week or so, I'm ready to get back to quilting. I also do computer crafting and work with photos. I'm never away from quilting for very long as I will miss it too much. As a hand quilter, I try to spend some time working on piecing a new project while handquilting on one. When the hand quilting is completed, the next one is usuallyready to sandwich and begin hand quilting. I quilt in panels and just try to keep a good rotation going. It's very rare that I'm between quilting projects.

Don't worry about your down time. That's a good time to look through your books and magazines and think about what you want to do. I too bought a new machine last fall and still keep the manual handy for reference but I'm settling in with it nicely and love piecing on it as it's a dream to sew on - Pfaff Quilt Expression 4.0.

Fiber Artist 06-01-2010 08:42 PM

shop for fabric!!!

Judie 06-01-2010 09:18 PM

this may sound silly to some.. but when I get in a slump I do someting that pumps a lot of oxygen into my system.. My favorite (though not always possible) is to put on some tapes and sing, LOUDLY.. warm up a bit.. and sing your heart out.. I don't think anyone can stay down too long when they get their blood pumping and their brain full of oxygenated blood.. If you don't like to sing, do some exercise, or even deep breathing.. Just get that oxygen in... It's amamzing what a bit of heavy breathing will do for your outlook!

hpylady 06-01-2010 09:37 PM

Judy, I do that too! Sing, Sing, Sing. Of course, I wait till my husband goes to work, but my grandkids love it. They think I am silly. I also throw in a few happy dance moves. :)

DebraK 06-01-2010 11:14 PM


Originally Posted by Judie
this may sound silly to some.. but when I get in a slump I do someting that pumps a lot of oxygen into my system.. My favorite (though not always possible) is to put on some tapes and sing, LOUDLY.. warm up a bit.. and sing your heart out.. I don't think anyone can stay down too long when they get their blood pumping and their brain full of oxygenated blood.. If you don't like to sing, do some exercise, or even deep breathing.. Just get that oxygen in... It's amamzing what a bit of heavy breathing will do for your outlook!

I like your style!

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 02:42 PM


Originally Posted by Judie
this may sound silly to some.. but when I get in a slump I do someting that pumps a lot of oxygen into my system.. My favorite (though not always possible) is to put on some tapes and sing, LOUDLY.. warm up a bit.. and sing your heart out.. I don't think anyone can stay down too long when they get their blood pumping and their brain full of oxygenated blood.. If you don't like to sing, do some exercise, or even deep breathing.. Just get that oxygen in... It's amamzing what a bit of heavy breathing will do for your outlook!

It is funny you should say that because I have been singing in the shower lately. I haven't done that in over a year. I sang to my 3 year old today while I was putting him down for a nap. First he started by covering his ears, I think he was trying to be funny, then he put his hands down and settled in. That means he stuck his finger in his mouth and brought up his blankie to rub against his face. Is this the biggest compliment a singer can get or what?

Judie 06-02-2010 07:57 PM

Ahhh.. That is so sweet! I have a 3 year old granddaughter.. I sing this song to her..

I love you Little eyes..
I love you little eyes..
I love you in the spring and in the fall..
I love you little eyes..
I love you little eyes
I love you most of all!

(I think the real words are a bit different, instead of little eyes I think its a name.. but this is how I heard it when I was young.. so that is how I sing it).

Today we were in the car and she started singing that song to me.. nearly brought tears to my eyes.. Nothing is sweeter than a small child who loves you.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 08:50 PM


Originally Posted by craftybear
that is very good advice!


Originally Posted by Kitsie
Go and do other things for a few weeks. Close the door to your sewing room or put your quilting all away. (I just went through about a month of that.) Picked up a magazine one day and saw a pattern that really grabbed me and then I was back in it full time! It felt like being afraid that after investing so much time and money into quilting that I'd finished with it and so had failed myself. A bit drastic perhaps but obviously we all seem to have more in common than we thought. Something I learned when suffering panic attacks: "Let time pass"


I agree. That is a good advice. I am afraid that if I pause I will forget what I had learned not to do. Then when I start up again I will have to relearn what I should have known already. Yeah I suffer from panic attacks too since I was a kid. I thought I was claustrophobic but I would have attacks in the open too.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 08:55 PM


Originally Posted by Rainy Day
Or, just have a quick dip in the therapy pool for a top up? Sometimes that can get you over the hump, and seeing the Dr is no bad thing - PND can sneak back up on you. Take care, and breathe Sabrina - I hope you feel a bit better soon. Either that, or get a whole heap of blue and black fabric and make how you are feeling. I am sure that every person on this board would send you some!

I agree with you about how PND can sneak back up on you. That is why I am still in therapy. I have gotten better at recognizing when it is sneaking. This doesn't feel like a depression episode though. Maybe I recognized it before it fully snuck up on me.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 08:59 PM


Originally Posted by Lori S
I clean and reorganize my sewing room. By the time I am done with oraginizing my stash of everything from fabrics, books, notions, I am ready and inspired to move on to the next project. It works every time. Sometimes so well I do not make it completley through the cleaning/reorganizing process.
Try it , if nothing else you will have a great space when you are ready.

Organizing the sewing room is a good one. I do that too. I used to put my fabrics away between projects. I have to admit I have shied away from that lately. I didn't want to stop. I got into the zone of finishing all my UFOs. But this time I definitely did not feel like doing that. I felt more like anything but cleaning up my sewing room.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:07 PM


Originally Posted by Dkm
Strange. I'm in that state right now. I started having knee problems about 3 mos ago. Since I'm not a doctor fan, I've put it off. Now in pt and that takes up a lot of time.

I like to read and have been doing a lot of that, but I don't feel that accomplishes much. I really like to see some results from the day and quilting or sewing lets me feel that. I'm getting ready to start a new project today...just got to get in the sewing room and hope something happens.

Let's get going.

I hope your knee feels better. I have a bad hip at age 37 and it is very annoying. I totally agree with you about reading. I get obsessive when I am reading. I like to read Jennifer Chiaverni, Emilie Richards, Debbie MacComber, and Janet Evanovich books too.

I think starting a new project is a good idea for me. Since I have finished all my UFOs, I can start on some more UFOs while I wait for my class date to get here.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:10 PM


Originally Posted by Joanie2
When I am not in the mood to sew I dig out my quilt magazines and just sit and look through them. I seem to be the go to girl for magazines as many of my friends pass their magazines to me first. After I'm done I pass them on. I almost always find something to inspire me--a pattern, a fabric or maybe the way the colors are put together. When I really don't feel like sewing I cut. I find cutting pieces very calming for me. Of course it means another project to finish but I still enjoy it. All else fails, I read about quilting -- I enjoy all the Jennifer Chiaverini books as well as various other quilt related fiction. Get your friends together and if you don't already have some project going, work together to make a quilt for charity.

I like your cutting therapy idea. Eventhoug I had finished my UFOs I was going to wait until I have them all quilted and binded. I still have more uncut kits. I think I can handle going through them and cut up the fabrics. That is a very good idea. Thanks.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:15 PM


Originally Posted by Sewslow

Originally Posted by sabrinaquilts

Originally Posted by craftybear
just get your new machine out and start playing with it, have fun, pretend you are on vacation by yourself and sew, sew, sew

My new machine is so fancy that I keep running into snags. I would have brought out one of my old sewing machines if the new one is not so heavy to move off my table. Until my class date I have to keep the new one out. Plus my DH proudly bought it for me. If I have it put away his heart will be broken. I will keep that in mind about bringing out the sewing machine. If I can figure out a way to have another machine out to sew on maybe I can get back into my escape again. Thanks!

That's why a few years ago when my husband said to "get whatever you want" I chose a Janome over DIL's way more expensive Pfaff. I plugged mine in and started sewing, referring only occasionally to the slim manual instead of taking classes and plowing through a thick instruction book. I occasionally yearn for more room for a squashed up quilt but I'm still happy with it.

When I picked up my machine the dealer spent one hour showing me how to use my machine. I am disappointed that I can't just do what you did with yours or like I did with all my other machines. This one has many special features. Even though I followed the instruction manual I still feel like I missed/skipped something. When I signed up for the class he said it might not be me that is having trouble. He said it might be my machine. They will check it when I come in for my class. I am not too upset about it. I know that once it is dialed in it will be a dream.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:20 PM


Originally Posted by amorerm
My best initiative was to start a quilt for "a gift". It is soooo motivational. Nothing greater than the anticipation of giving. In between working on this one, you can work on a UFO that you have been putting off.

I agree with you on working on gifts. That is why 98% of the quilts I worked on are gifts. I give them away while I am perfecting my technique. Working on things for myself totally unmotivates me. I do force myself to make some stuff for myself here and there. It is hard because even I don't know what I want or would like. Plus it doesn't help that I have no confidence in my work to be good. When I make stuff for others I seemed to have unlimited amount of energy.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:28 PM


Originally Posted by CRicart

Originally Posted by sabrinaquilts
What do you do when you can't seem to get back into the mood of quilting? I know for some that maybe a blasphemy, but let us just pretend seriously for a second. I don't mean burned out of doing quilting. Maybe unmotivated might be a better description. Quilting used to be an escape. I used to sew at least 3-8 hours everyday faithfully. Now I have a new sewing machine but even that is not working to boost my enthusiasim because I have to take classes to learn to really use it.

What do you do when you suddenly drop the desire to quilt and know you really need to get back into it?


I was burned out from too many choices, and too much indecision. Soooo
I started doing Quilts for Kids. All of the fabric is matched for you and cut for the pattern they send, borders and backing included as well. All you do is assemble, add batting and quilt. This really helped me fall in love with quilting again!

Hmmmmm. That is a good one. My quilting friend has been after me to sew some charity quilts for her church. It comes with a pack of square fabrics already cut. I just need to sew them together. That may be a good way to go. I know I can sew straight on my sewing machine. Thanks!

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:29 PM


Originally Posted by N.J.linda
When looking for fabric for your sons quilt find something cheery, kid like. Maybe something from a cartoon, or a toy he liked as a kid. I did this for my friend when she was going thru chemo. I made her a quilt that had Dick and jane on it since it was her favorite book series as a kid.

That is a very good idea!

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:32 PM


Originally Posted by hpylady
Play my guitar or banjo, maybe throw in the harmonica! :thumbup:

That is a very good idea. I recently learned to play the piano. It was a life long dream of mine. I don't usually resort to my piano because I am not very good at sight reading. I know I am too hard on myself. I grew up admiring the classics. I should hit the keys for fun more often.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:37 PM


Originally Posted by garysgal
I look thru the quilting magazines I have, or the sewing patterns or sometimes I just go play in the sewing room. If I am still not motivated by all this, I go read a good book. Remember "there is a time for everything under the heavens" and I figure it's my time to take a break.

I really like your last line.

Judie 06-02-2010 09:44 PM

Another thing I found that has helped me get through some things I'd just rather skip is to set a timer for 15 min... do as much as I can in that time.. but when the timer goes off, I stop.. do something I rather do for some specified time, and then go at the 'chore' thing again.

What I've found is that I can get quite a lot done in the time I've set.. and I can keep at it because I know that timer will go off and I can move on to something else.. Seems like a big job in small bites isn't as overwhelming.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:47 PM


Originally Posted by tuesy

Originally Posted by hpylady
Tuesy: How about some pictures of your dishclothes? :)


Here's the 3 latest. The one in the middle has been bleached.. (got washed today and I use bleach) The first one is the color that the blue marbled looks before bleach and the last one is one that I did last night albiet on bigger needles since I had used my other needles to show my friend how to knit and had a start on it for her.. :lol:

Hey those are the same dishclothes that I knit too. I stopped knitting them because I got burned out. Then I did hats and one of my sisters got me burned out by trying to turn me into a production machine. Those are really nice dishclothes. I use them too. I give some to my friends that love them too. I skip my sisters because they are not much of a fan of my homemade items.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 09:51 PM


Originally Posted by Judie
Another thing I found that has helped me get through some things I'd just rather skip is to set a timer for 15 min... do as much as I can in that time.. but when the timer goes off, I stop.. do something I rather do for some specified time, and then go at the 'chore' thing again.

What I've found is that I can get quite a lot done in the time I've set.. and I can keep at it because I know that timer will go off and I can move on to something else.. Seems like a big job in small bites isn't as overwhelming.

I totally agree. I pop in a book on CD when I quilt. When the disc is done I stop and do something else. I have been listening to the "Twilight Saga" series because my DH got tired of hearing me listening to the same book CD over and over again. I now have all four and sometimes I would listen to one after another. Kind of like a little "Twilight" week feast. I can tell my DH is thinking about buying my some other books on CD. He is getting tired of them.

Judie 06-02-2010 09:54 PM

I do the same thing!! I love books on tape!! I check them out from our local public library.. They are the greatest thing since earphones came into being!!

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 10:00 PM


Originally Posted by Thea
I too hit the sewing blues. Every day
I go into my sewing room and sit there looking around, putting my machine on and do nothing. My son has been diagnosed with Lou Gerhigs disease (ALS). He is only 34. I'm trying to make him a quilt to keep his legs warm but can't get started. Any suggestions?

Thea, did you read N.J.linda's suggestion on page 7? It sounded like a good thing to add. I am sorry for your husband. I almost lost my oldest son to drowning almost four years ago. It really changes your make up. Even though your son is 34, he is still your little boy. Quilts for men are hard to do. I should know. I have four boys with a husband that is picky about those things. Our list of baby boy names consist of two names. When the last pregnancy was another boy I screamed at the technician that she can't be serious. I don't have anymore boy names left. My baby girl name list was a mile long. Sabrina was on the top. I had been resorting to using names from my husband's family heritage. Lucky I could only have four otherwise I would have to try my side. My side of the family names does not sound good in English.

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 10:03 PM


Originally Posted by lnikkers52
I am in the process of moving . Some day I HOPE. There's been one thing after another and moving has been taking Forever. Well my machine got packed away and so i have just been organizing pressing ans sorting all the scraps that didn't get packed yet. it has been quet and very theraputic for me and if I ever get moved I have a ton of things to sew up and be in the groove again.

Moving yuck. Luck had it that I ended up pregnant the last two times we moved. Never again!

sabrinaquilts 06-02-2010 10:12 PM


Originally Posted by marla
Boy do I know what you mean. I started piecing together a quilt and then was dx with breast cancer. My life began to spin out of control and I rushed to get yard work and other things done, leaving my quiltingsitting on the dining room table until almost time for surgery. So I moved it to the sewing room. Now I am 2 1/2 wks post surgery. Just now getting adjusted mentally and physically. Just not ready to sit at the machine and fear that if I don'tdo this soon, it will be put off for a long time. Guess that is just part of the trauma and recovery.

I am sorry that you had breast cancer. I hope you are well now. After feeling this way for weeks now I was thinking the same as you. I had never felt like this with quilting since I started four years ago. I was worried that I would have to give it up like I had to with my scrapbooking. I had to drop it because of post partum depression. The pictures were causing me stress. From what I have read this is a normal part of the quilting life. I still scrapbook once a month to keep myself from abandoning it permanently. If you and I could stay quilting it will come back again. Lots of people have posted some very good suggestions. I like that there are many ranges.

Deborah12687 06-03-2010 03:42 AM

When I get in a quilting slump I first make a batch of chocolate chip cookies eat a few with a big glass of milk. Then I go to my sewing corner stand in the middle of it and click my quilted slippers and say.... Theres no place like quilting...there is no place like quilting!Heheheheh! :lol:


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