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gal288 02-28-2011 06:16 AM


Originally Posted by sewmuchmore
I would ask how long have they been quilting and if they took classes? I may even offter to help them out if they would like my help. You must have seen mine :lol: :lol:

I do the same. My appllique & quiltiing stitches were the worst. When I started. If not taken. Under the wings & encouraged, who knows if I would have stayed the course, probably not, I' m. Such a perfectionist when it comes to quilting

I love helping other quilters, especially newbies,, they. Get. So. Excited

Laura22 02-28-2011 06:21 AM

I can always find something nice to say. Sometimes it is simply "I love the scale of the fabrics you've chosen" but I'll always find a compliment.

clem55 02-28-2011 06:24 AM

I truely believe that you can always find something that is nice to say. If that person is actually asking for your advice or opinion, then maybe it'd okay to offer constructive opinions, but even then, find nice first, give opinion last.

Ann L 02-28-2011 06:25 AM


Originally Posted by thepolyparrot

Originally Posted by stewyscrewy
Kind words are the first comment to make.

Amen! And the second and third, too! :)

I 4th it!

DA Mayer 02-28-2011 06:28 AM

I try to find something I like about the work, I ask about the quilter and it is interesting what you find out. I have been thinking about having the boards name and web address put on cards because I encourage every quilter I meet to check out our site, I think they can all benefit from the site or we can benefit from them.

LivelyLady 02-28-2011 06:31 AM

There is always something I can compliment them about...the fabric, the time, the design, the work, etc....for every quilt made I believe it's a labor of love :D

nanna-up-north 02-28-2011 06:34 AM

The greatest gift is LOVE..... I try not to forget that. Love goes into every quilt we make...... and sweet, kind words are a good expression of love..... I try to always find something loving to say.....

BellaBoo 02-28-2011 06:35 AM

I think it's a shame to let someone think their work is fine when it's not and they don't know it. I have picked up pieces for sale that were terrible and have said this is interesting color choice but the workmanship is not something I would pay for.

drivingsusan 02-28-2011 06:47 AM


Originally Posted by ritamaew
I went to a show and there was a simple quilt not sewn too well. I knew this was someone's first attempt and she was happy with it. I told her--Your quilt has a very homey feeling. Like I would like to wrap up in it and read a good book.--I later found out that the quilter has parkinson's disease. What an effort she put forth in making this quilt! Not all quilts are up to Padukah standards but they are all special.
Rita

This brought tears to my eyes........ a true lesson in life!!!!

Jill 02-28-2011 06:49 AM


Originally Posted by thepolyparrot

Originally Posted by stewyscrewy
Kind words are the first comment to make.

Amen! And the second and third, too! :)

I totally agree because I'm sure everyone does their best when making a quilt. I keep my earliest quilts where I can see them just to remind me that I finally learned how to cut straight (most of the time anyway) strips, the importance of accuracy in cutting, sewing, and squaring my blocks, and that bindings look better squared at the corners rather than rounded....I am so glad people made positive comments to me and gave me encouragement to keep on trying.


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