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bearisgray 08-29-2012 10:47 AM

Would you want to have someone mention it to you?
 
If there was something glaringly different in a quilt top you were making - such as one block being placed differently than the rest -

Would you appreciate it if someone asked you about it?

Or would you consider the person a member of the dreaded 'quilt police'?

I would like to have someone mention it to me and ask if it was intentional? If not intentional, I'd like to be able to change/fix it before it's quilted.

AlienQuilter 08-29-2012 10:53 AM

It depends on the persons personality. I would want someone to mention it to me. I would never mention it after the quilt was quilted! But in the early stages when it was still fixable - yes.

MattieMae 08-29-2012 10:57 AM

I never use the term "quilt police." I always appreciate an honest critique of my work...whether I ask for it or not.



quiltlady1941 08-29-2012 11:04 AM

yes I would want someone to tell me before it is quilted

..I emailed a picture of a very busy quilt that I made to my friend and she picked out right away that I had a blocked turned the wrong way, but it was all ready quilted so there wasn't anything I could do about it...she said not to tell anyone and most would not see it but everytime I look at the quilt my eyes go right to the mistake.. LOL

Raggiemom 08-29-2012 11:04 AM

I'd want to know unless the quilt was all together all ready and it would be a pain to fix :)

nygal 08-29-2012 11:04 AM

Years ago a lady I knew was showing me some of her craft projects. One was counted cross stitch. She was not

finished with it but I could easily see that she did not know about having all of the top stitches going in the same direction. So I mentioned it to her. After I saw her face fall I was sorry that I told her.


I would rather know so I can do it right the next time. Maybe not everyone is like that.

MaggieBB 08-29-2012 11:05 AM

This reminds me of the question about myslip showing, always appreciate people concerned enough about how things look and what I need to know reminds me they are interested in what I am doing.

MadQuilter 08-29-2012 11:06 AM

I'd want to know.

Kitsie 08-29-2012 11:16 AM

Me, too. In fact I PM'd a board member about a similar thing and she was so grateful!


Originally Posted by MadQuilter (Post 5477137)
I'd want to know.


LoisM 08-29-2012 11:22 AM

I would definitely appreciate knowing.

nycquilter 08-29-2012 11:28 AM

me too. Though if it were after it was quilted, I'd like to have the presence of mind to simply say, "oh that's my concession to only God is perfect" or some such remark. I had a quilt that not only I had quilted, but photographed and gifted. Then after about three or more weeks, I looked at the picture and the "oops" block popped out at me.

Scissor Queen 08-29-2012 11:29 AM

Absolutely. Even if the quilt is finished I might still be able to change it.

sewbeadit 08-29-2012 12:07 PM

Yes if it was done kindly.lol

fien777 08-29-2012 12:22 PM

Oh please yes.
But you can tell it in a kind way, stay friendly.

chips88 08-29-2012 12:24 PM

i'd want to know...

mimisharon 08-29-2012 12:25 PM

I would want to know. I have had help from quilters here on the board when trying to arrange the blocks for a quilt and so appreciate the help. (Madquilter I think you helped me with a couple. :) )

It's wonderful to have the planning board and to take pictures and look them over carefully before beginning the sewing together but it happens sometimes.

Chasing Hawk 08-29-2012 12:28 PM

I wouldn't want to be told. Most of my quilts go to family, and they know I don't make anything perfect. Everything I make has something out of whack. My Native beliefs are that nothing can be perfect, it's disrespectful to Wakan Tanka.

I don't point others mistakes, and I expect the same in return. I can critique my own work......lol

I make quilts to be love and used. Not to be gawked at and remain unloved.

patchsamkim 08-29-2012 12:30 PM

Yes, I would want to know so I hope someone would tell me if they saw something really wrong...it would then be up to me if I wanted to leave it, or fix it. Most of the time, I would fix it, or I would always know there is something wrong. Some things I could leave, as long as not really obvious.

dunster 08-29-2012 12:43 PM

I would absolutely like to know. If it's already quilted, at least I can laugh about it, and if not, then I can probably fix it.

I would also like for others to critique my work. For instance, if my binding could be improved, tell me - otherwise I'll never know. I believe this craft is most fun when we're learning and improving. However, most people won't give this type of input, for fear of hurt feelings. I know I don't offer that kind of advice, unless directly asked.

Neesie 08-29-2012 12:53 PM

I would want to know. If it was too late to fix it, I could at least keep the quilt, instead of gifting it.

It'd be much more of a surprise/shock, if someone told me NOTHING was wrong with it! :D

ckcowl 08-29-2012 01:01 PM

if it's a 'glaring error' i already know about it. would have already decided to 'fix it' or leave it before the quilt was finished. if i left it i decided it was (artistic license) and my choice to make it that way

IndigoQuilter 08-29-2012 01:02 PM

I would like to know, so I could fix it.

Jingle 08-29-2012 01:22 PM

No. If it is fixable, maybe. I make sure all my blocks go the same way before I sew rows together. The people (lots) I give my quilts to would not know the difference.

ghostrider 08-29-2012 01:29 PM


Originally Posted by Scissor Queen (Post 5477182)
Absolutely. Even if the quilt is finished I might still be able to change it.

I'd always want to know, finished or not. Even if I can't fix it, I can learn from it and lessen the chance of repeating it.
And if I already know about it, I'll be sure to let you know...in the same tone you told me about the mistake. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/s...basic/cool.gif

ArtsyOne 08-29-2012 01:30 PM

There's definitely a nice way of pointing out what might be a glaring error that the maker hasn't noticed because she's too close to it. For instance, one could say "I like the way that the red block is really noticeable in the blue row" or "that block is really more noticeable since you didn't quilt it"

QuiltnNan 08-29-2012 01:50 PM

i definitely appreciate being told!

ptquilts 08-29-2012 02:21 PM

I would definitely want to know.

I used to handquilt for an older lady with a small shop/business. Once she sent me a top that had all the same kind of blocks. It was a commission quilt and she said her daughter had pieced it for her. As I was quilting it, over 50% quilted, I noticed one block near the edge was significantly smaller than the others, causing distortion in the blocks around it. I felt awful that I had not seen it before (she did the basting) and went back and forth about whether to tell her about it. I felt bad that it was her daughters work, did not want to bad-mouth her daughter, but then I thought about the customer, knowing I would feel bad if I got that quality of work in a quilt I had paid for.
I did tell her, and she said to just quilt over it. Not sure what happened when she got it back.

ptquilts 08-29-2012 02:22 PM


Originally Posted by ArtsyOne (Post 5477390)
There's definitely a nice way of pointing out what might be a glaring error that the maker hasn't noticed because she's too close to it. For instance, one could say "I like the way that the red block is really noticeable in the blue row" or "that block is really more noticeable since you didn't quilt it"

You could maybe qualify for a job with the diplomatic corps!

pinecone 08-29-2012 02:27 PM

Tell me, tell me, pleeeeease before it is quilted!

Jackie Spencer 08-29-2012 02:51 PM

a couple of years ago my sister entered a quilt in a Quilt Show. She won first place. Later when I was out there on vacation she had it hanging in her sewing room. When I told her the yo yo's were sewn on back wards. She laughed so hard, she said oh no now everybody knows what a dummy I am. I said evidently not no one else noticed either. we had a good laugh!

quiltstringz 08-29-2012 02:53 PM

I would want to know - then I can decide what I want to do. If not quilted fix it, if quilted - depends

bearisgray 08-29-2012 03:07 PM

One can say something like - that block seems to be pointing in a different direction that the others - is that intentional?

CarolinePaj 08-29-2012 03:23 PM

I would definately want to know!

But of course I would then say.... oh that..... that was intentional - LOL LOL LOL!

Hugs

Caroline

quiltingweb 08-29-2012 03:40 PM

Usually, I'm my own worst critic. I don't think I would point out a mistake to anyone, and I don't know I'd like to hear about mine...chances are I'll already know and tell you about it when I'm showing you my quilt. I have a baby quilt that my dear cousins and aunties made for one of my babies...the Z is backwards....and the only reason I know is because my mom's initials are in the top left and not the bottom right....LOVE IT! Mistakes make us human, how we deal with them make us unique.

LyndaOH 08-29-2012 03:43 PM

I'd like to know!

cad_queen_2000 08-29-2012 03:53 PM

Yes, tell me! Just say something like, "hey, how come that block is upside down?" Then I can say, "It put up a fight and wanted to show it's independence."

sewlisa 08-29-2012 04:52 PM

Oh yes! I would want to know. That way I could be sure to learn from it and do better next time.

Gramie bj 08-29-2012 06:18 PM

YES!!!m tell me! I am not now and never will be perfect but I keep trying.

earthwalker 08-29-2012 10:25 PM

Yes...tell me, then I'd fix it. I have no problem with constructive comments and I like to think I make positive progress with each quilt I make. Seems like many others have the same point of view. What I do mind, not so much for myself (hide like a rhino:)) is that some people take great delight in pointing out another's errors in a less than polite fashion. Don't know that you'd describe them as Quilt Police....just ill-mannered.

QuiltingCrazie 08-29-2012 11:27 PM

Mistakes are what make a quilt custom! I would want to know but I always recommend taking a picture of a top before you quilt it you would be surprised as the difference of what you can see in the picture, I always take several while I'm planning the layout it's amazing. I have a deeper question....what if it's the quilting that makes that ruins the quilt?? Do you say anything especially when you know the quilter and you know they consider themselves a top notch professional? You know they produce beautiful work so image the shock when they leave 10inch un quilted which makes all the blocks puff out and look like a wrinkled mess, different colored bobbin on part by mistake but left and uneven quilting all over? Represented a group gift to another quilter....I'm still in shock from it and we said nothing because no one could find the words.


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