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CookyIN 12-15-2013 12:05 PM

This was my first SS and I had to scramble to see how many items I could stuff into the box and stay within the $20 limit. I'm going to have a ball next year keeping an eye out for wonderful items at bargain prices. You see, for me, part of the fun will be seeing just how far I can make that $20 stretch -- I want to hear it squeal!

As for pleasing my Santee, I can tweak what I put in once I get her/his list of likes. So many items are universal to quilters and yes, we may have something, but so many things either get depleted or worn, we always need a new one. And I'm definitely making a gift to tuck in which will be entirely from leftovers in my stash and essentially costs me nothing but time -- which will be a gift to my Santee that I choose to give outside of the $20 limit simply in the Spirit of Christmas.

I can't wait for next year!

amyjo 12-15-2013 12:36 PM

That is exactly the way I see it. What we choose to give outside of the $20 limit is up to us. We all know that there are people on the board who are on fixed incomes. We all know that not everyone has access to LQS and such stores. Maybe some don't have a credit card to buy online items. It all comes down to one thing --we joined this swap to have some fun, teasing and joshing, but also to be able to gift someone with a package that we put together so they could experience the love from the people on this board. My biggest thrill is that someone actually likes what I sent. I have given gifts to people who did not appreciate what I gave, so now I find people on this board to gift stuff to. I have lots of stuff that I need to get rid of since I am sure that I will never use/make all of it and if someone else can so be it.

I would love to do a swap in July to keep the spirit of giving as the reason for the season and maybe give someone else great joy. How about it? Would there be anyone out there who would want to tackle something like that? I wish I could, but I have so much work yet, not retired yet.

CookyIN 12-15-2013 12:37 PM


Originally Posted by tlrnhi (Post 6447107)
Now is the time to start collecting. Tons of things after Christmas will be going on sale, so you can pick them up cheap. that's how most of the people get what they need for next years SS.
There's usually someone that wonders HOW someone can send out a package with so much stuff and only spend $20. Well? That's how it's done. You shop and shop all year long. When you find a deal on something, you buy it, whether it's 1 or 101. There's usually a swap that you will join and you can always tuck something nice in to what you are sending. I collect all year long. I can usually find seam rippers for 10 cents, cute buttons for a quarter or so, thread is always going on sale at different times of the year. Fat quarters go on sale also. You can always tuck extra fat quarters into a package too. There's all sorts of things to find and gather.

Terri's post #4588 for anyone who missed it.

Neesie 12-15-2013 01:11 PM


Originally Posted by CookyIN (Post 6457992)
This was my first SS and I had to scramble to see how many items I could stuff into the box and stay within the $20 limit. I'm going to have a ball next year keeping an eye out for wonderful items at bargain prices. You see, for me, part of the fun will be seeing just how far I can make that $20 stretch -- I want to hear it squeal!

As for pleasing my Santee, I can tweak what I put in once I get her/his list of likes. So many items are universal to quilters and yes, we may have something, but so many things either get depleted or worn, we always need a new one. And I'm definitely making a gift to tuck in which will be entirely from leftovers in my stash and essentially costs me nothing but time -- which will be a gift to my Santee that I choose to give outside of the $20 limit simply in the Spirit of Christmas.

I can't wait for next year!

It's amazing what treasures and bargains can be found, if one shops with future swaps in mind. :thumbup:

m-fay 12-16-2013 03:27 AM


Originally Posted by CookyIN (Post 6457992)
This was my first SS and I had to scramble to see how many items I could stuff into the box and stay within the $20 limit. I'm going to have a ball next year keeping an eye out for wonderful items at bargain prices. You see, for me, part of the fun will be seeing just how far I can make that $20 stretch -- I want to hear it s
As for pleasing my Santee, I can tweak what I put in once I get her/his list of likes. So many items are universal to quilters and yes, we may have something, but so many things either get depleted or worn, we always need a new one. And I'm definitely making a gift to tuck in which will be entirely from leftovers in my stash and essentially costs me nothing but time -- which will be a gift to my Santee that I choose to give outside of the $20 limit simply in the Spirit of Christmas.

I can't wait for next year!

Well sad CookyIn

m-fay 12-16-2013 03:29 AM

I meant Well SAID CookyIN

Bullock2us 12-16-2013 04:01 AM


Originally Posted by neesie (Post 6457599)
in the very first post, here's what terri said about spending.

"... As in the past years, you will send 4 fat quarters and a gift(s) not to exceed $20. i know some in the past have sent much more than the $20 limit and that cannot be helped. some people are just a bit more generous than others. that is nothing to get mad about and nothing i can control. ..."

there are also rules about what not to send, firm mailing date, not opening gifts before the opening date, etc. Since this is terri's swap, i believe we should abide by her decision, regarding the stash offerings and other extras. :)

this was my first ss swap and i guess i didn't read the rules very well. I just assumed that it was like the monthly one and anything from or made from stash didn't count towards the dollar limit. I did stay within the limit on stuff i bought ,not including the fat quarters because i didn't have any stash of the kind of fabric my ss wanted so had to buy them.. And then just included what i wanted to from stash to make it fun.
Thanks for doing this swap-it was fun!

Knitette 12-16-2013 07:11 AM

At the end of the day, isn't it really not about how much you put in, but how much thought you put in?

Neesie 12-16-2013 07:32 AM


Originally Posted by Bullock2us (Post 6458754)
this was my first ss swap and i guess i didn't read the rules very well. I just assumed that it was like the monthly one and anything from or made from stash didn't count towards the dollar limit. I did stay within the limit on stuff i bought ,not including the fat quarters because i didn't have any stash of the kind of fabric my ss wanted so had to buy them.. And then just included what i wanted to from stash to make it fun.
Thanks for doing this swap-it was fun!

You need to read the entire first post, not just the part I quoted. :) I only chose a small part of her post, to emphasize what she told everyone about the $ guidelines, that some may spend more and that it shouldn't cause anger.

I also drew from my stash and didn't count that towards the dollar limit. I had picked up little bargains throughout the year and those were not counted toward the dollar limit, either. I only counted what I felt was fair to count.

Wonnie 12-16-2013 07:34 AM

Exactly! Personally I would like to see how creative and thought inspired we could be following the maximum dollar amount Terri designates . If she says homemade things don't count in the dollar amount, we have a whole year to work on those thlngs to augment the 4 fat quarters and monetary gift(s)

Wonnie 12-16-2013 07:37 AM

My comment above was in response to Knitette's comment #4768

Neesie 12-16-2013 07:38 AM


Originally Posted by Knitette (Post 6459136)
At the end of the day, isn't it really not about how much you put in, but how much thought you put in?

Exactly! If someone sent me just a few inexpensive things but those things were obviously chosen just for me, I'd be happy with my gift. :) On the other hand, if someone sent me a bunch of expensive things, from my 'dislikes' list, I'd be crushed. :(

tlrnhi 12-16-2013 09:43 AM

Ok ladies...I think we are beating a dead horse here. We need to move past all of this. This is supposed to be fun, not a bashing as to who got what, yada, yada, yada. Everyone does the best they can with what they have.
Let's get past all of this and carry on.
I'm going to be closing the thread next week.

Neesie 12-16-2013 10:00 AM


Originally Posted by tlrnhi (Post 6459366)
Ok ladies...I think we are beating a dead horse here. We need to move past all of this. This is supposed to be fun, not a bashing as to who got what, yada, yada, yada. Everyone does the best they can with what they have.
Let's get past all of this and carry on.
I'm going to be closing the thread next week.

Terri, we're pretty much all saying it's the thought that counts. No bashing. :)

{{{{{{sending hugs, to fellow Santas}}}}}}}

Dedemac 12-16-2013 10:29 AM


Originally Posted by Knitette (Post 6459136)
At the end of the day, isn't it really not about how much you put in, but how much thought you put in?


Well said!

Dedemac 12-16-2013 10:34 AM

Ok, How many in the upper part of the world will have a White Christmas next week? We will it's snowing again...I'm not sure if I'm happy about it or would like it to wait until the 24th. I still have shopping to do!!:( But on the upside when it snows here it is usually above 10 degrees.

tlrnhi 12-16-2013 10:34 AM

Yep, and it keeps going around in a circle. Just seems as if there's bashing going on because of what is being said. Just saying.........


Originally Posted by Neesie (Post 6459383)
Terri, we're pretty much all saying it's the thought that counts. No bashing. :)

{{{{{{sending hugs, to fellow Santas}}}}}}}


Neesie 12-16-2013 10:49 AM


Originally Posted by Dedemac (Post 6459446)
Ok, How many in the upper part of the world will have a White Christmas next week? We will it's snowing again...I'm not sure if I'm happy about it or would like it to wait until the 24th. I still have shopping to do!!:( But on the upside when it snows here it is usually above 10 degrees.

Our TX weather has been crazy, this year! We seem to keep flip-flopping between highs of freezing and the upper 60s! As of right now, the predicted high for 12/25 is in the low 50s. Current temp. is 61.

Likethedog 12-16-2013 10:18 PM

I enjoyed the SS swap -- enjoyed trying to find things my recipient would like, enjoyed the banter on the board, enjoyed the temptation of seeing my package just waiting there to be opened, enjoyed opening day. I look forward to next year!

buddy'smom 12-16-2013 11:19 PM

We had about a foot of snow over the weekend, so think our's will be white for sure.


Originally Posted by Dedemac (Post 6459446)
Ok, How many in the upper part of the world will have a White Christmas next week? We will it's snowing again...I'm not sure if I'm happy about it or would like it to wait until the 24th. I still have shopping to do!!:( But on the upside when it snows here it is usually above 10 degrees.


m-fay 12-17-2013 02:27 AM

I'd love to see a white Christmas, just like the ones Bing Crosby sings about, with sleigh bells jingling etc. and all those things like chesnuts roasting on an open fire, carol singers & all....Dreaming....

rwquilts 12-17-2013 06:31 AM


Originally Posted by m-fay (Post 6460269)
I'd love to see a white Christmas, just like the ones Bing Crosby sings about, with sleigh bells jingling etc. and all those things like chesnuts roasting on an open fire, carol singers & all....Dreaming....

The old movies make the Christmas experience seem so magical don't they??? Looks like you're getting some sun and ocean fun though? White Christmas's are fun to be sure...but after a really short time they get dingy and dirty and icky looking, but big fat snowflakes falling softly on Christmas Eve is pretty cool! :)

tlrnhi 12-17-2013 12:13 PM

Ok, snow and ice cleared out of driveway. Now going to take a short nap then pack. Heading to NYC for a couple days. Love the windows decorated all up pretty and going to hopefully get some whimsical ornaments again at Macy's. Going to go see Santa and have pic taken, but not telling Bill we are doing that. :):)
Hope everyone has a great rest of the week....

Forgot to add...no, we are NOT driving. We are taking the train in. Only a 2 1/2 hour ride and much cheaper and less headaches than driving and parking. Plus, you can't pay me enough to drive in NYC!

dreamer2009 12-17-2013 01:24 PM


Originally Posted by tlrnhi (Post 6461215)
Ok, snow and ice cleared out of driveway. Now going to take a short nap then pack. Heading to NYC for a couple days. Love the windows decorated all up pretty and going to hopefully get some whimsical ornaments again at Macy's. Going to go see Santa and have pic taken, but not telling Bill we are doing that. :):)
Hope everyone has a great rest of the week....

Forgot to add...no, we are NOT driving. We are taking the train in. Only a 2 1/2 hour ride and much cheaper and less headaches than driving and parking. Plus, you can't pay me enough to drive in NYC!

you be very nice to Santa while sitting on his knee !!!!!

CookyIN 12-17-2013 02:33 PM


Originally Posted by tlrnhi (Post 6459366)
I'm going to be closing the thread next week.

Oh dear; we've been waiting for Pat to get out of the hospital and open her present. Hope she's able to let us know all is well before the thread is closed!

quiltingdragon 12-17-2013 03:05 PM


Originally Posted by sew_Tracy (Post 6450575)
I have not heard a peep from my SSR, sent her a PM. I realize that the weather conditions and conditions of life might preclude reading this board. I was just excited about one of the gag gifts relating to Coconut rum and hot chocolate!

Hi All, and especially Sew_Tracy(hope you got my pm earlier this week): I got home from Germany/Austria earlier today and immediately opened my box. I love it all, will have to post pictures later as my camera is completely overloaded. She even sent me coconut rum! She managed to find so much stuff on my "like" list! Thanks again!

On a side note, traveling with quilters is so much fun, this was my first quilting trip. I cannot recommend Sew Many Places highly enough! Ready to start a new project as Bonnie Hunter, our hostess, taught Intro to English Paper Piecing as none of us could bring our machines.

m-fay 12-17-2013 05:41 PM


Originally Posted by rwquilts (Post 6460583)
The old movies make the Christmas experience seem so magical don't they??? Looks like you're getting some sun and ocean fun though? White Christmas's are fun to be sure...but after a really short time they get dingy and dirty and icky looking, but big fat snowflakes falling softly on Christmas Eve is pretty cool! :)

We're far from the sea this Christmas. Last Christmas (when my avitar pic was taken) we were in Exmouth and temps were over 40C. Its cooler this year, in Kalgoorlie...Temps only in the 30C's so far. Unfortunately no Ocean.

sew_Tracy 12-17-2013 06:07 PM

Yep, got your PM and STILL jealous!!!!

bezzie2013 12-18-2013 09:18 AM

Our Christmas is put on hold I was admitted to the hospital once again 2nd time in the last 2 months my body is storing way to much fluids again.

Neesie 12-18-2013 01:42 PM


Originally Posted by bezzie2013 (Post 6462654)
Our Christmas is put on hold I was admitted to the hospital once again 2nd time in the last 2 months my body is storing way to much fluids again.

{{{{{Bezzie2013}}}}} ::::: sending prayers, for healing! ::::::

som 12-18-2013 09:26 PM

thank you terri for hosting this swap , I loved everything I got ,although I don't know who sent it to me ,she forgot to send her name ,and I received a pm from the one who got my pkg, and sne liked the things I sent her also, I had lots of fun and thanks again som

Cheesehead 12-20-2013 11:07 AM


Originally Posted by CookyIN (Post 6461379)
Oh dear; we've been waiting for Pat to get out of the hospital and open her present. Hope she's able to let us know all is well before the thread is closed!

Has anybody heard anything from Pat? I'm sure she would be here if she could but her absence is making me concerned.

Neesie 12-20-2013 02:49 PM


Originally Posted by Pat625 (Post 6456975)
Sorry to my Secret Santa-still in the hospital while my box calls my name in the distance Hope to be home in the next few days!


Originally Posted by Cheesehead (Post 6466018)
Has anybody heard anything from Pat? I'm sure she would be here if she could but her absence is making me concerned.

Her last post (above) was from the evening of the 14th. I'm getting concerned, too. I hope she's just home, getting lots of rest.

debbieoh 12-20-2013 03:44 PM

I loved the swap and plan to join next year. This was my first year and sure wasn't disappointed and heard from my person and she was happy with what I sent. But believe me next year my box will be even bigger!!! already picked some great deals and getting my goodies ready!
Thanks so much for having this swap. Debbie in Ohio

debbieoh 12-20-2013 03:53 PM

Sounds really good to me


Originally Posted by IrelandDragonQuilting (Post 6453580)
We need a Christmas swap in July! Just saying.... :wave::sew::o


omacookie 12-20-2013 05:16 PM

Back in the "good ole college days " A frat no campus had a Christmas tree and celebrated HALF WAY TO CHRISTMAS It was on June 25th........

Belfrybat 12-21-2013 07:57 AM

Does anyone know anything about Cally13? She didn't post for ages, then had a few posts on this thread in November, but nothing since before opening day. I've PMed her but she hasn't responded.

Wonnie 12-21-2013 11:01 AM

I was her recipient for the SS Swap this year. Received a very nice note explaining the history of one of the items she sent. Her husband is from Belgium and she said they traveled back every year so that's where they might be for the holidays.

CookyIN 12-21-2013 01:48 PM


Originally Posted by Neesie (Post 6466288)
Her last post (above) was from the evening of the 14th. I'm getting concerned, too. I hope she's just home, getting lots of rest.

Pat's been in my thoughts too. Terri intended to close down this thread soon. I certainly hope we know that Pat is home and well before she does!

Neesie 12-21-2013 05:03 PM


Originally Posted by CookyIN (Post 6467677)
Pat's been in my thoughts too. Terri intended to close down this thread soon. I certainly hope we know that Pat is home and well before she does!

So do I! I hope she's okay!!!


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