I first have to tell you both that I am so sorry to hear of your wife's dad. Please tell her that she is in my prayers. I know it is sometimes harder to have someone you love sick and with nothing to do but wait on them in the hospital to see how they recover. Very stressful, indeed. I hope you both are being extra kind to each other.
I love the quilt for your "mom", I know she will just love it. I also am sorry to hear of her sickness. Bless her heart.