I always jump in and say ,"I made it especially for you," and then explain why I chose what I chose. I made a baby quilt with a science theme for a co-worker and made sure he knew all the work involved. So he wouldn't think it was something I picked up at the store.

People don't recognize what's hand made or what's involved with hand made items.

So sorry this happened to you, it's a lovely blanket & generous gift. Let's hope the recipient was a little flustered with all the attention being given to her. Like others have said, the baby will love it.

I had a similar experience. Traveled 13 hrs straight w my DIL for her cousin's dtr's baby shower. I didn't know the people, but made a pretty pink embroidered quilt backed in Minkee. She barely opened it. My DIL said "Isn't it pretty....Joyce made it herself. The mommy-to-be said," Oh really, Well, we'll use it somewhere." (as if homemade made it less valuable)

For those of us who quilt and sew, we need to face the fact that to some people the fact that hand made or hand crafted or home made makes a gift less valuable.

If she has another child just buy something, no more special gifts for her.

Its a lovely quilt...and I agree that when I make something, I just have to say when it leaves my hands, it is out of my control...that being said, I know it is hurtful, and you shouldn't feel bad about feeling hurt that it didn't seem that she "got" how much work and love went into it...maybe going through everything at home, she will see the label, and really understand the love and work in it...and, I also agree now you know that something "store bought" is ok for a gift for her...

There was 1 quilt I gave as a gift, the person said "thanks", and went on....several months later I saw the person again, and he said, "I want to tell you I really looked at the quilt you made for me, and the amount of work you did is amazing. I don't think I ever let you know how much I appreciate it..", and the quilt is hanging in his home in a main hallway! So, you never know...

I love your blanket and I'm sure once she has the baby she will LOVE using it. It really is a pretty rag quilt!

I am soooo sorry. You know I've given quilts and had calls to find out if I had handmade it. I don't put labels on unless its going to a family member. They were thrilled to have a handcrafted gift but perhaps not knowing makes a difference.

You never know how people will react but I have seen through the years that that quilt will probably become the most loved gift she ever received!

I'm sorry your feelings were hurt. It does look very soft and cuddly and I'm sure the baby will love it.

Susan