You sound like a very nice person who got taken. Women, I'm sorry to say being one, can sometimes get their eggs mixed in the basket.My first feeling would be to call your best friend in the group and ask. The crime may be so trivial no one can remember. If they still want to make a fuss, start your own group. The gabbing over you only takes about two days, and they'll be after someone else. Be there to help that someone else before the mess starts again.