she needs to learn responsibilty has my son has had to do 2 years ago he got a nintendo ds (handheld game system) was told to NOT take it out of the house but do they listen of course not because we are stupid parents who know nothing anyway he left it at a friends house a month after he got it and has not been seen since friend supposedly told people he sold it needless to say he is not a friend anymore and my son went without and is still going without if he wants stuff like that i will not buy it he is 14 and i make him use bday money for expensive stuff then when he loses it its not my money so i cant get so upset and it means more to him