I make them for new babies in the family but some don't get them until they are 2. I make quilts as I want to and give them as gifts to who feel like. I don't feel like I owe them to anyone, even if they might think so.
When someone asks for a quilt that I wouldn't normally make, like a friend or acquaintance, I just laugh and say "you have no idea how long these take and how far behind I am in quilts for my family". I don't have to say no but they get the message.