I think, being asked to make quilts is not a good thing. If you were in the business of making quilts for a profit or living, then that is another thing. A quilt that is given to another is all together different. It was made with and given with love. Don't put yourself in the position of feeling you have to make one for those asking.
It might be time to announce that you are no longer making quilts other than for your own enjoyment, be it a gift or a family quilt. Too much of your time is being taken up with trying to make one for everyone who wishes to have one. * but you could show them how to make one themselves if they were interested*!! That might spark an interest and create new quilters!
Good Luck and don't be afraid to say NO.
Sharon