I usually give mine away. I tell the new owner that this quilt is made with love and prayers and needs to be used and loved.
My Grand Children know that they can use them anyway they want.
If it wears out I can make another.
I do have one quilt that is not allowed to be used. It is the quilt that my DH grandmother made for him. It is almost 70 years old.
My sons have told me that they want it because it is the softest quilt ever. But it is falling apart so that is why it is off limits.
But the rest need to be used so they can be very soft from being loved.