Boy, you can really tell when someone hits a nerve!!!
Yes, lots of quilts are quilted heavily with very fancy motifs. This is the quilter's choice. Many of them are for shows or special occasions. I admire and OOH/AAHHH at these quilts/works of art along with everyone else.
I personally do not quilt closely, because I agree with the "less quilting = softer draping quilt" school of thought. 99% of my quilts are gifts to be used on beds and/or as throws, so I do not quilt heavily. Just enough to be sure nothing comes apart.
To each his own, I say. And a very astute observation by the original poster, here!! And, I am sure, no disrespect or affront intended, and none should be taken. :-)