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Old 10-21-2010, 12:32 PM
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catrancher
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Originally Posted by desertrose
Since you are committed and don't feel you can back out of the project perhaps there is a way to help you feel less trapped in this project of doom. What if you completed the project as soon as you have the time but delay sending it back to her until spring. By doing to sooner you remove that feeling of I don't want to do this project I hate. You could turn it into a major learning experience on several levels. Do what feels right to you and the doom will disappear.

Good Luck!
Andie :)
That's a good idea. We like the town they live in and have avoided telling them we're there until we're getting ready to leave. That way we can enjoy the place, but limit the company. This is kind of a different take on the same idea. The first time we visited her (in our RV) we made the mistake of staying longer than we had planned to. We saw them every day, and her husband just about drove us batty with his inane comments and his selfishness.
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