Thank you all for your comments and support, I really am overwhelmed by all your caring and love. I brought the subject up at my grief counseling group last night. Their thought was that when I am ready to do this I will do it and not force the issue. I think there is something to that theory.I find having his clothes in the closet very comforting and haven't thought of giving them away. However last night I donated two of his winter jackets to the needy, so I think the same principle applies. When I am ready I will be able to do it. Thank you all.