it's not the race, it's the journey.........quit beating up on urself ( there will always some one else around to do that lol) soooo what, really, does life end because u did not get a project done?!? Womem put to much pressure on themselves ( me included ) to be super-woman....guess what, it also will make us unhappy women when we either fail or just get to worn out to cope. take a deep breath, take a good break, and tell that husband to go get pizza for supper, that ur tired and done for the day... and tell him to stay away from ur stuff!