Your story reminds me of when our children still lived at home. Our house was the house to be at also. My DH worked second shift and I worked third shift. I never knew who was going to be at my house when I got home from work. I took many of these boys on vacation with us, to their hair cuts appts. and did their laundry besides feeding everyone of them. I wouldn't have had it any other way. To this day I still get phone calls from them to see how we're doing. Now that we've moved 1100 miles away from where our children were raised, if any of them are in FL. on vacation they stop by for a visit. I feel VERY blessed to have been such a positive influence in their young lives. You should feel the same way!!!!