GrammaNan, you just put your faith in the Lord and he will help you through all of these bad times, he says that he will never put more on you than you can stand, but sometimes it seems like it though. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and I pray that things will be better for you all soon. I am sure that who ever you promised something to will understand, so try not to worry about it. You can make up for it somewhere down the line, if you need something to help you with your quilting please just ask and if I can I will be glad to send something to you. Sending you GREAT BIG HUGS