first of all if they knew what kind of work goes into a quilt they would love them like we do. BUT!!!! they don't thats why we give them one because they don't have one. you give them inn love but have no control over the grandbaby that drags it through the mud, lol. thats why you should detach from the quilt when you give it and hope for the best. I started making mine grandkid proof. if you know they will be taken care of then give your nice work.