I'll bet none of those intimidating quilters started out being perfect. Maybe you should stay in to try to keep up with the group, but do your own simple small projects for FUN, which is the whole point anyway. You didn't start quilting to lead to a profession or a job. You thought you might enjoy creating something unique and attractive. Start small for yourself doing just that. You'll love to look at your potholder or small hanging just as much as the more complicated project. Maybe more if you make it totally your own creation.