"I just don't believe for a second that you would spend hundreds of hours and hard earned dollars slaving over a quilt that you truly thought someone close to you would love and that you wouldn't be the least bit upset to find out they used to sop up the oil from the motor they pulled apart on it...and seriously if you comment back saying that you would be fine with that then lady, you are a saint and I hope you get your angel wings soon because I would be pissed.[/quote]
If you consider making quilt "slaving" then how sad and why are you making it anyway. I ofter do kind things for other people just to see the smile on their face when something unexpecteded happens. Like taking over a cake for my friend's mother 93 birthday. The smile and a simple thank you was enough. They did not offer me a peice of cake but I did not expect them to. I believe in Karma so yes I have my wings and lots of good things happen to me.