I would suggest to NEVER EVER give up on yourself or your abilities. For having done what you are able to do, carry on and look to us for help and encouragement. It sounds like the ladies that you are quilting with are great for you as well. There is NO such thing as the quilting police! Believe me, your quilt will look great, and you will be proud of it. I know that I will be proud of you!
TreeFrog