I think that sums it up. You ended the group for a reason, and unless those reasons are addressed then nothing will change and you will just be frustrated.
How about a girls night out. Like go to the movies meet for lunch one week. If it's the friendship you need and to me sounds like it is try this for a little while. Everyone goes dutch!!! We all need to get every once in awhile.Then you could enjoy each others company with the hassle free. And no clean up after words. So then the ones that come can come if not meet up with them another time. I hope this helps.