Yes, only if you set up a new system: Assign everyone a number (drawing out of a hat works well). The first month, you meet at number one's house. She provides the lunch menu with each person providing one dish, and everyone stays for the clean-up. The next month, you meet at number two's house, etc.
Depending on how long you "meet," the first half could be to work on your own project(s), and the second half could be for group quilting of a completed project. The group would have to decide how you figure out who's. The style of the (hand) quilting would be at the descretion of the person who pieced the quilt; if it's not your quilt, you don't have a say in how it's quilted.
As with other groups, it may be necessary to produce a "rules of conduct" and have everyone sign before they are allowed (back) into the group.
Good luck; I hope you can come to some terms that work for you.
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