I have been married 58 years this Oct. We had children right away we both loved them so much and they loved us to . There was never a thought of leaving each other. We never let them hear us are see us mad at each other. never left with out a hug. Never hang up a phone call with out saying I love you, same with the children. And most of all never put each other down to other people. I love him more now than the day I married him. He is 81 and I am 78