Sorry the just stepmom came out wrong. My dd loves me and I love her with all my heart. I am just careful not to make her own mom feel threatened by calling her my daughter in front of her, she is the one with a bit of a problem about it not the dd. But I stay on good terms with her real mom too because after all I would not have been blessed with such a wonderful dd if not for her and what ever happened between her parents has nothing to do with me is the way I treat it.