I'm sorry that women your age are immature and you can't find anyone your age to talk about sewing with. I know how it feels to not have friends. My husband has been transferred several times and it is always difficult at first. I find the local guilds by typing what part of the country I'm going to live in, i.e., NE Ohio, and voila! a list comes up of guilds in the area. I contact the person associated with that guild and start attending meetings. Granted, it's not always easy to go to a meeting not knowing anyone but after a period of time you begin to make friendships with people. We moved here 3 yrs ago and I belong to 2 quilt guilds and an embroidery group. I'm retired so it is probably easier for me to belong to several groups. Maybe you can find a day guild. I hope.
Good luck!