Originally Posted by sweetana3
I would make sure there was a wonderful rainbow and one dove flying. I agree with the others to go with your feelings and knowledge of the mother. It does not need to be a surprise.
I agree with this idea. My ddl lost a baby and she said too the part that hurt was others didn't acknowledge the baby.
Two babies were born, one went to heaven but he was here for a short time so yes follow your heart on this.