WOW!! I cannot think of another thing to say !lol
I have my hobbies and he has his and some we do together .. neither of us have ever told the other to get rid of something , and we both ask each other if we really can afford it or is it frivilous expense and if we really can afford it. We both work hard for our money to pay bills and have our hobbies. So we both feel hobbies are a necessity in life ! LOL