Seeing the title 'my husband just doesn't..." prompted this and hopefully you have started feeling better, but Zillslady has made a good case for identifying what YOU are doing and who you are. A while ago DH thought he was doing me a favor by moving the large screen TV to my sewing room so we "could spend some time together". (this translated to noise, picking up his snacks, etc for me) What he didn't know was that I felt like he was taking over my space, he eventually moved it back to the living room but if your DH maybe thinks the same way, perhaps he is trying to be close to you?? You know him better than anyone else, maybe you already know what the answer is??
Originally Posted by Zhillslady
don't feel required to have someone else validate you. You are the daughter of the most high King and that makes you a princess. You have talents and dreams. So some things go unfinished. We all have that. You are doing what you enjoy for a living and things get done when they get done.