I always told my DH, not to put any more flowers on my casket than he gave me while I was living, so my arrangement would be very small. LOL But, I really love the idea of a quilt. I could do whatever I want. I have told my children and grands, that when I die, instead of doing a picture thingy, they can just bring all, or at least some, of the quilts that I have made or given to them. That is how I want to be remembered.