I know it must be hard but in this situation it seems more about the relationship between you and your daughter than the relationship between you and your ex. If it were me I'd just be sure she does most of it and make it clear that you are not going to do it for her but with her.
LOL Coals of fire that was a good one Green heron.
Last edited by Gladys; 11-30-2011 at 01:47 AM.