It is hard to judge how a person will react. I gave a charm on point lap quilt to my SIL aand BIL for their 50th anniversary. We had to drive 4 hours each way. After having a cup of tea (no cookie) we got into our car, and as we were driving out the driveway, she said, "oh, thanks for the quilt". And this woman is a sort of quilter, i.e. she quilts cheater cloth. That was over 8 months ago and we have not heard another word. No more for her!!