One thing that might help is if you have a room dedicated to sewing. You can make your mess and drop everything at once if needed and then just go back and pick up from where you left off. If you can only sew at the kitchen table, (BTDT!) then your sewing seems in vain. I am lucky to have two such rooms! One on the main floor and one in the basement. The basement is where I make my mess and I can just walk away when I have to then come back and....tada!....it's nice not to have to clean up in the middle of a project because you need the space for dinner or kids doing homework, etc. And the sewing room on the main floor stays (somewhat...LOL) presentable....not my usual chaotic mess. Good luck to you, hope you can find a solution and sew the day away!