I make quilts for my daughters on special occasions (birthdays, anniversaries, etc.). My grandchildren each got a twin quilt when they left the crib. Now as teenagers, I have repaired the grands quilts from years of them dragging their ubies around and they asked for new quilts this year for birthdays, king size quilts no less. I told them and the mothers that as expensive as fabrics and sewing notions had become these were the last quilts until graduation and wedding present would be the very last one for them all. I have always very frankly made them know this quilt I made cannot be gotten just anywhere and with them in and out they know how much time and work goes into it. And from here I agree with Sharonb, they will either care for it or whatever.