My son blended his family (boy and a girl) with another of 2 boys. When they had finished dinner the first night, the kids went to watch TV. The grands wanted to know where their new brothers' TV quilts were. When they heard that the new brothers were quiltless, the grands immediately hauled out their quilts for selection. They were terribly upset by the idea of family members without their own portable hugs. My son and I are very proud of their understanding of the importance of sharing.