So sorry to hear about your DH -- its a huge adjustment, on top of making a move like that.
The Folsom quilt guild is a really good one - full of nice ladies who love quilting, and very friendly. Haven't been to a meeting there in a number of years as we moved away, but I don't think that's changed. It's a large group, so there should be some 'like minded ladies' that you can meet and possibly get together with. They put a quilt show on every year that's a really good one, too. The yard sales in Orangevale, Folsom and El Dorado Hills are terrific, too, for fabric, etc....I enjoy going to one or two once in a while when we go down to visit our kids. Congrats on your move to El Dorado Hills - its a nice area!