I understand your disappointment. I sent a quilt to a soldier in Iraq. Lots of time went into to hand quilting and embroidery to customize it for him. I wanted him to see it every day and remember that we were all praying for him and that we appreciated everything he was doing for us. Well, instead of using it, he sent it to his mother. It's sitting in her closet! I had to tell myself that I did what was in my heart to do and let it go, but, that was hard.