Madamekelly ~
I just finished each message in the thread and I can't tell you how long it's been since I've enjoyed a thread as much as this one you started! Thanks for starting this!
I don't have a magic wand story myself, much different than the ones already shared, and I learned a long time ago the value of the word no. However, I love the post that suggested just saying, "I don't want to." Can't wait to use that one if for nothing else than to see the look on the face of the requester.