Awww Arianna and Alyce, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It must be unbearable especially during the holidays. I'll send positive thoughts and prayers your way. I can't imagine any hobby filling your mind enough to forget. Only thing that I could think of to continue quilting is maybe when you put a quilt label on a finished quilt, it could be in memory of your lost granddaughter or son. Something along the line of: may this quilt warm you like her/his love warmed me. It brings tears to my eyes as I can feel your grief in your words. I'm so sorry for your great loss.