Originally Posted by ptquilts

"I did that first one as a favor to you, but I can't keep quilting all your quilts for free. Do you understand?"

Originally Posted by JanieW

I added "that's not going to work for me. " Don't give a reason because the manipulator/user/ control freak will fix your reason. The more you say it , the easier it gets. That's not going to work for me. Why not? It's not going to work for me. Over and over till they give up.

Originally Posted by Onebyone

When I hear people say they can't sew, cook, etc. All I hear I don't want learn how. I immediately don't care.