I do quilts for me, whether I give them as gifts, or keep them myself, quilting is therapy for me. I know that some people do not appreciate the labor, expense, work and love that goes into every quilt. I can shoulder the expense, it is cheaper that going to a phycologist for me at least. I will just keep quilting for the people in my life that appreciate it. No hurt feelings for me. I just keep going about my quilting. Problem solved. Just call it Quiltologist.