How do you stay focused?
#22
Member
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: New York
Posts: 74
WOW! I thought it was only me! It seems that when I start something I am obsessive about it for a few days, then POW loose interest. If I make a mistake, that's it.. finished with project. I wander around the house and get nothing done. Like you.. computer, phone, etc. I know that I have SAD and this becomes my excuse. Also I have many projects started and once I go onto another I totally loose interest in the one before. I have a new machine and all the notions you can think of. But...no motivation to get anything finished. Part of my problem is that there is no one who I can give a finished project to that would appreciate the time, money and effort that went into it. My family could care less. . I am pretty new at this and not to good at it, although I have at least 4 things I am proud of. . I will look at all the suggestions and try some. LOL
#23
Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Montreal
Posts: 376
It's just so tempting to drop the problem solving and start something else! Sticking with a problem until it's solved is the only way I can keep myself from being distracted by a feather blowing by! And sometimes the answer doesn't come immediately. I guess the best thing is to not get yourself in too deep with so many things to finish everything becomes impossible. Takes a lot of impulse and self control.
#24
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Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: near San Antonio
Posts: 138
I use a spiral of graph paper for a quilting book and put everything in it - pictures of blocks, layouts for quilts, notes for cutting and yardage, etc.
Right now, I believe I have three or four projects in there that are either in progress or on the chalkboard for after X project is done.
Right now, I'm looking forward to going back to a baby quilt I was working on before I got caught up in Christmas prezzies. Once that's done, I'm looking forward to doing a wedding quilt. After that, it's back to my quilted pillows...and the list goes on. If you tell yourself, "This project is shelved until I finish this other one," you're more motivated to finish the one so you can get to the other. Does that make sense?
There is something to be said for over-creating, lol.
Right now, I believe I have three or four projects in there that are either in progress or on the chalkboard for after X project is done.
Right now, I'm looking forward to going back to a baby quilt I was working on before I got caught up in Christmas prezzies. Once that's done, I'm looking forward to doing a wedding quilt. After that, it's back to my quilted pillows...and the list goes on. If you tell yourself, "This project is shelved until I finish this other one," you're more motivated to finish the one so you can get to the other. Does that make sense?
There is something to be said for over-creating, lol.
#25
I can stay in my studio forever, once i get in there, lol. Out here, too many distractions, like you mentioned. I can keep quilting till my back starts bothering me too much, or I am starving to death, lol, or my pups need a break. Otherwise, I do pretty good in there. Wish I could stay focused when trying to clean, but it just doesn't hold my interest, so I am easily distracted in that dept., & my house shows it, lol... What can I say, my heart, & mind, belong to quilting!...
#26
A deadline (real or imagined) - even if I set it myself - helps. Like "I should finish that blue quilt before Christmas." Then after it's done, move on to another. Pack away other projects until you get one or two done, then move on to some UFO's or new projects. Works for me.
#29
Originally Posted by QuiltnCowgirl
I have the opposite problem. I start sewing and can't quit. Hence the couple of all-nighters I did last week. I do periodically wander out of my sewing room & come check for new posts here. I guess that counts as taking a break?
#30
Senior Member
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Bushkill, Pa
Posts: 534
The keyword is progress. If you make progress forward
on a project everyday, I think that's great. I know for
myself if I get too obsessed with something and don't
want to stop and do something else, I start getting sloppy, and you can't get sloppy in quilting. The project won't
turn out properly. Doing two or three blocks a day is
fine with me. Don't see anything wrong with it.
Two years from now when the quilt is done, do you think it's going to matter how long it took you to get there? You'll already be on to other projects and will have forgotten how long it took to do.
Keep up the good work.
on a project everyday, I think that's great. I know for
myself if I get too obsessed with something and don't
want to stop and do something else, I start getting sloppy, and you can't get sloppy in quilting. The project won't
turn out properly. Doing two or three blocks a day is
fine with me. Don't see anything wrong with it.
Two years from now when the quilt is done, do you think it's going to matter how long it took you to get there? You'll already be on to other projects and will have forgotten how long it took to do.
Keep up the good work.
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