My youngest som is getting married tomorrow!
02-13-2011, 07:08 PM
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The decision is not easy, but do what your heart is telling you to do, The hospital can wait and there your dad is with people that can take care of him, maybe you can go to the wedding be there for the ceremony and leave early that way your dad is not alone after you pick him up. but whatever you do, be careful in the road, will be praying for you.
02-13-2011, 09:04 PM
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I am a nurse and have patients discharge in the evening due to family unable to get there early due to situation. The hospital will understand. try to do both. Pick up the phone and call the hospital and see what they say.
02-14-2011, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Lacelady
Originally Posted by Up North
And I won't be able to be there! How can I deal with this emotionally!! My dad is in the hospital 80 miles away and is supposed to get out tomorrow so I have to go get him I feel so torn!! This is just a justice of the peace thing but still it is important to me. He says Grandpa is more important but I just can't wrap my head around it!! Do I need a nerve pill?
02-14-2011, 05:56 AM
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Looks like dad won't get released today so I am going to the wedding and then to see him! I am kind of in shock as I didn't know about this wedding until yesterday!! Nothing like telling us almost after the fact!!
02-14-2011, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Up North
Looks like dad won't get released today so I am going to the wedding and then to see him! I am kind of in shock as I didn't know about this wedding until yesterday!! Nothing like telling us almost after the fact!!
My son eloped ----- and didn't tell ANYONE till a year LATER!
02-14-2011, 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Up North
Looks like dad won't get released today so I am going to the wedding and then to see him! I am kind of in shock as I didn't know about this wedding until yesterday!! Nothing like telling us almost after the fact!!
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April
02-14-2011, 06:48 AM
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My daughter called me 2 hours before she got married by a judge. I had to call work and tell them I would be late. And I had the joy of going to my DD wedding in my security uniform. Not the best look. LOL
02-14-2011, 09:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Up North
Looks like dad won't get released today so I am going to the wedding and then to see him! I am kind of in shock as I didn't know about this wedding until yesterday!! Nothing like telling us almost after the fact!!
...but on the bright side - no dress hunting or flower arranging, cake decisions or weather nightmares to face :) enjoy your visit with your dad after their I do's....maybe they will join you. Hugs to all
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