Have I had enough?
#11
Super Member
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Oregon
Posts: 3,417
I bought fabric just about every time I found a great sale, and I'm glad I did. Prices have soared! Yes, I am overwhelmed, but I am still glad I have that fabric. I tend to do the same with patterns - buying or finding free ones, and now I am overwhelmed with too many.
I've started cutting fabric into kits, and keep it with the pattern and backing, if I have it. I like having something ready to sew at all times. It seems to help with motivation to use up what I have.
I've also limited my time looking at patterns, and I've stopped buying fabric for now.
I hope you take a break, if you need one, but keep going when the mood hits. I know folks who thought they lost interest in a hobby, gave away or sold all their materials, only to regret it later.
I've started cutting fabric into kits, and keep it with the pattern and backing, if I have it. I like having something ready to sew at all times. It seems to help with motivation to use up what I have.
I've also limited my time looking at patterns, and I've stopped buying fabric for now.
I hope you take a break, if you need one, but keep going when the mood hits. I know folks who thought they lost interest in a hobby, gave away or sold all their materials, only to regret it later.
#12
Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2021
Location: British Columbia
Posts: 926
The overwhelm is real and it can take a lot of effort to get past it. There's already been a lot of great advice and encouragement in the responses here (and I'm appreciating the reality checks, too, so thanks!) but I just wanted to add my two cents' worth and echo what most people are saying: it's totally okay to need and to take a break. I dabbled in quilting for a little while in the early 2000s and then life reared its ugly (busy) head and it took a pandemic and some big life changes for me to have enough time to get back into it.
If you're not ready for a complete break, it's also okay to shove a few piles/boxes/totes/bags (however you store your fabric and quilting stuff) into the basement or spare room or the back of a closet or toss an old sheet over it and only be able to see a limited selection of your fabric (or patterns) for a while. Because I source a lot of my fabric from other people's discards, it tends to be extremely random and generally in pretty small or odd-shaped pieces. I find if I try to focus on a limited amount of fabric (I store my scraps in colour boxes so that's often where I start) or a specific idea I am more likely to be able to move forward with a project.
A couple of specific shoutouts from other responses:
Iceblossom, joe'smom and greaterexp are right - getting organized can be a really helpful first step. Maybe it's purging (but not everything!), maybe it's filing, maybe it's sorting, but regaining control over part of the chaos can help you regain the fun and joy you have when you're piecing. And I agree that the Fabric Moratorium is a great place to get ideas and encouragement - I'm actually heading there next to share what I've been doing with some of my scraps. :-)
If you're not ready for a complete break, it's also okay to shove a few piles/boxes/totes/bags (however you store your fabric and quilting stuff) into the basement or spare room or the back of a closet or toss an old sheet over it and only be able to see a limited selection of your fabric (or patterns) for a while. Because I source a lot of my fabric from other people's discards, it tends to be extremely random and generally in pretty small or odd-shaped pieces. I find if I try to focus on a limited amount of fabric (I store my scraps in colour boxes so that's often where I start) or a specific idea I am more likely to be able to move forward with a project.
A couple of specific shoutouts from other responses:
Iceblossom, joe'smom and greaterexp are right - getting organized can be a really helpful first step. Maybe it's purging (but not everything!), maybe it's filing, maybe it's sorting, but regaining control over part of the chaos can help you regain the fun and joy you have when you're piecing. And I agree that the Fabric Moratorium is a great place to get ideas and encouragement - I'm actually heading there next to share what I've been doing with some of my scraps. :-)
#13
Super Member
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Seacoast New Hampshire
Posts: 1,200
I think many things are overwhelming these days. Ever been to a garden center to look at plants? Or try to choose a healthy grain bread? Sometimes too much is just too much.
I've been where you are and a few times over the last twenty years I went thru ALL my craft and sewing supplies and donated them to either the local nursing home or Goodwill. Some were ambitious purchases and some were "OMG I HAVE to HAVE THIS!!", then a month or so later it was more like "what the heck am I going to use this for?". Over the last few weeks I have decided to sew for me. But what? So I would like a summer handbag and am looking for videos and books to do just that. You don't always have to sew for someone else to feel good, sometimes sewing something simple, even just a pretty, flowery coaster for your coffee mug, is so much more cheery that you would expect.
My suggestion is to sit outside on the warm days and watch nature and the trees and the butterflies and listed to the birds chatting with each other. Just sit. Take it all in. Then go inside, pick three of your favorite fabrics, and make yourself something just for you. That will tell you what direction you need to go in. Then you can figure out what to de-stash and what you would love to keep. As they say, less is more. Keep what you absolutely love and donate the rest. Your mind will clear up and you will feel freer. Happy days are ahead!
I've been where you are and a few times over the last twenty years I went thru ALL my craft and sewing supplies and donated them to either the local nursing home or Goodwill. Some were ambitious purchases and some were "OMG I HAVE to HAVE THIS!!", then a month or so later it was more like "what the heck am I going to use this for?". Over the last few weeks I have decided to sew for me. But what? So I would like a summer handbag and am looking for videos and books to do just that. You don't always have to sew for someone else to feel good, sometimes sewing something simple, even just a pretty, flowery coaster for your coffee mug, is so much more cheery that you would expect.
My suggestion is to sit outside on the warm days and watch nature and the trees and the butterflies and listed to the birds chatting with each other. Just sit. Take it all in. Then go inside, pick three of your favorite fabrics, and make yourself something just for you. That will tell you what direction you need to go in. Then you can figure out what to de-stash and what you would love to keep. As they say, less is more. Keep what you absolutely love and donate the rest. Your mind will clear up and you will feel freer. Happy days are ahead!
#14
Super Member
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Delaware
Posts: 1,620
I definitely understand the feeling of being overwhelmed with all the things I'd like to do. I seem to have spurts where I don't purchase fabric or collect any new patterns and then - BAM! - I run out of neutral or am gifted a box of old magazines. Worse yet, I see quilts that I'd like to make, blocks that look intriguing, and great ways to 'use up some scraps' and the collection grows. I think it's good to be interested in new things. Sometimes, though, I have a little talk with myself about the reality of doing everything I want to do. I've been on a 'no new fabric' ban. However, I bought four kits. And I'd never done a kit before purchasing these. Sigh.
#17
Do you have other hobbies? I keep looking at my huge stash of stained glass and a patten I've designed of scattered roses, but quilting seems to get in the way! I keep saying that I'll make the glass panel next, but I get quilt inspired and can't work on both. I haven't lost my glass mojo, I just have lots of mojos!
Maybe find another mojo and keep your fabric!
Maybe find another mojo and keep your fabric!
#18
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Southern USA
Posts: 17,814
Here is the weblink to the fat quarter bag pattern. The pdf download I posted is confusing.
https://www.allfreesewing.com/Bags-a...at-Quarter-Bag
https://www.allfreesewing.com/Bags-a...at-Quarter-Bag
#20
Super Member
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Myrtle Beach, SC
Posts: 8,291
I quilt as an excuse to buy fabric. But I donate fabric to my quilt guild, so that "justifies" it. And I get to see the fabric eventually become a quilt.
I once bought a fabric because it was on sale for a ridiculously low price. I didn't really like it, so it was donated. After many 'ugly' fabric comments, one of the quilters used it as a backing fabric. It was stunning!
You just never know...
I once bought a fabric because it was on sale for a ridiculously low price. I didn't really like it, so it was donated. After many 'ugly' fabric comments, one of the quilters used it as a backing fabric. It was stunning!
You just never know...

