quiltykitty

I do know what you are going through. I made it through Thanksgiving also. The first without my mother and my husband. It wasn't as bad as I expected, maybe because I had family and my sister stayed with me a week. Christmas will be hard, but we will get through.

I get over one part of the grieving process and a few weeks later that same part hits again for the other lost loved one. Sometimes it gets almost unbearable. But, it does seem to be getting better.

I hope you and Adrian have a nice Christmas. I know it will be much harder for you than me. I believe you will be okay. I know you miss your wife and all the dreams you shared and hopes of the future. And that is okay, it is exactly what happens in the grief process. And it just takes time. Someday, my young friend, you and I will be able to think of our lost spouses and not feel this awful pain. Till then we will just live one day at a time.

Merry Christmas to you and your son. And to all those others who have lost loved ones this year.

Your friend in North Central Texas

pocoellie

Glad you made it through one of the holidays, always a rough time, but you have to just keep on plugging on. Please keep in touch.

sueisallaboutquilts

I can't believe your kindness at keeping us posted. You and Adrian are very special to us.
Blessings to you :)

julia58

It's nice of you to keep in touch with us. I hope you continue with all the holiday traditions that your family has had in the past. Happy Holidays to you and your family.

sharon b

Nice to hear from you {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

reach out to us when you need to - we are here :lol: