Grandma's Stash Needs Organized...help!
#112
I think I disagree with most here. If Grandma is still quilting, it will get just like this again. I think I would start like sorting clothes for laundry. Separate into piles of like colors. Separate quilting fabric from home dec fabric and others. Then make a white bin, red bin, blue bin, Christmas bin, Halloween bin, etc. Don't bother with folding it. This would make it easier for her to find what she has. The yardage I would fold and stack on those bookshelves by color. I bet Grandma would help and you could enjoy being together. You may run across some that she would be willing to get rid of. It would be sad to see you work so hard folding and go back 6 months later to the same scene. Good luck to you. You are a good granddaughter to help her with this.
#113
Wow! I reread the whole original post again. When I first read through it I thought grandma was on board but if it is like this poster responded indeed do not force her however well meaning you might feel.
Eeeeee! Let me guess: the granddaughter is a Southerner. “Stash needs organized.” Hey, at least she’s got good intentions. BUT it doesn’t sound like she’s being very sensitive to her grandmother’s feelings. I’d say, unless the grandmother asks, or unless the entire lot is a roach-infested health hazard, leave it for such a time as she’s ASKED to organize. I bet that little grandmother knows where a lot of things are in the mix, and would be entirely upset at having someone else’s thinking shuffle any system she does have. And the granddaughter says she’s moving out of state soon? That would be awful! Then the grandmother won’t even have the recourse of asking where such-and-so is! Poor lady.
Let it go. Organize your own things before your move, and wait for your inheritance till such a time as it’s offered! That is, if you don’t want to discourage the poor owner and stifle any other plans for sewing projects she might have. Is she still sewing? Can she navigate in the heaps to work, or would she like a partial re-org at her own direction?
Life is short. Let her be the boss of her own stuff. HELP is often welcome, TYRANNY is not. I speak from experience with my own father. If the bedlam doesn’t already bother the grandmother, then most likely any superimposed organization will be lost the minute the granddaughter walks out the door...The same habits that brought the current state of things won’t magically reform themselves.
And that’s my sermon for the night!!!! (as I laugh and shake my head still!)
Let it go. Organize your own things before your move, and wait for your inheritance till such a time as it’s offered! That is, if you don’t want to discourage the poor owner and stifle any other plans for sewing projects she might have. Is she still sewing? Can she navigate in the heaps to work, or would she like a partial re-org at her own direction?
Life is short. Let her be the boss of her own stuff. HELP is often welcome, TYRANNY is not. I speak from experience with my own father. If the bedlam doesn’t already bother the grandmother, then most likely any superimposed organization will be lost the minute the granddaughter walks out the door...The same habits that brought the current state of things won’t magically reform themselves.
And that’s my sermon for the night!!!! (as I laugh and shake my head still!)
#114
I would set down with her and see how she would like it to be. This way she will still feel in control and she will know where things are when she needs them. Speaking as a retired nurse, I must say that making her feel envolved will help her self worth and not feel so much like people came in and moved her stuff without her input. It is great that you want to help her, but remember " It is Her Stuff."
#116
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looks like my stash, I need help doing it, and am overwhelmed on where or how to start.
I had 2 friends offer to help, but neither did. it was one of those deals, you do for me, I'll do for
you,. I did for them, but now they are forgetting the second part of the deal. I hate that.
if I had the money, i'd have someone come in and help me with it.
I had 2 friends offer to help, but neither did. it was one of those deals, you do for me, I'll do for
you,. I did for them, but now they are forgetting the second part of the deal. I hate that.
if I had the money, i'd have someone come in and help me with it.
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