Question on Gifting Quilts
#11
when i make a quilt for someone, i don't surprise them. They are in on the process so that they have some ownership and more likely to be as in love w/ it as I am. I also don't get hurt when I tell them "I'd like to do this for your child, will you let me?" And they tell me no.
There is still a surprise because usually the recipient isn't able to visualize the finished product.
My disappointment is a lot less this way.
There is still a surprise because usually the recipient isn't able to visualize the finished product.
My disappointment is a lot less this way.
#12
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I make my baby quilts large enough they can be used on the toddler size bed later. I figure the baby gets enough gifts when they're 1st born so why not make something for when they're a little bit older. The 2nd year I make a stuffed pillow to match the quilt to use up all the scraps leftover as well as any orphan blocks if I have them.
#13
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My husband knows what and how much is put into my quilting, and he still calls it a blanket. Oh well.
#15
My gs just showed me his baby quilt and said he still sleeps with it every night. He is 5. I do see that trend of not covering babies when they are little!!! It makes me crazy. Just make it big enough to be a toddler quilt.
#16
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I make all baby quilts to be toddler size.
My DD is a RN, started out as charge nurse for Labor and Delivery, now a director of a hospital. She used baby quilts I made to cover her babies in the crib. She also had two of the instant no breathing/movement detection mats devices in the crib. The baby was never off them with two of them covering the whole mattress. I don't know of any newborn not having the detection mats in their crib now. The church has them in all the cribs in the nursery.
My DD is a RN, started out as charge nurse for Labor and Delivery, now a director of a hospital. She used baby quilts I made to cover her babies in the crib. She also had two of the instant no breathing/movement detection mats devices in the crib. The baby was never off them with two of them covering the whole mattress. I don't know of any newborn not having the detection mats in their crib now. The church has them in all the cribs in the nursery.
#17
I have to remember that the quilt I've made for someone may not have the same meaning for them as it does to me. You may go in one day & it is in the dog's crate. If you give a gift, you must let it go. It was a shocker for me, but I learned a life lesson.
#19
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Yes, I hear all of you. I made a beautiful lavender butterfly print apron for a little girl who I have never met. I know her Mom through work. I was expecting a big thank you but got a brief acknowledgement and the Mom said the girl will take it to school to paint in. I was disappointed! Anyway, I make mostly Project Linus quilts and tell myself the kids are thrilled to receive them. Probably mean the most to kids who are sick or homeless.
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